Need a marriage counselor or therapist

[Anonymous]

We are desperate. There are no specific crises like abuse or infidelity. This is just two people who should never have been together in the first place and barely speak and are in a constant state of bitter resentment and conflict. The situation is unbearable. We will probably have to divorce at some point, but we need a Hail Mary. Even if we divorce, we still need help just figuring out a way to exist together since there are kids involved.

D.C. or Maryland would be preferred, but we would go to VA for the right therapist.

Suggestions please!

[Anonymous]

I feel for you.

[Anonymous]

I knew one guy in Alexandria who wouldn't do marriage counseling for you, unless BOTH people were committed to keeping the marriage together. David Cavanaugh. Sorry, am not getting the spelling right.

Keeping asking around for a talented person to help. Your children need both of you. You are so right about that.

[Anonymous]

Marjorie Robinson. She is excellent and in Bethesda

[Anonymous]

Judith Mazza. Excellent. She will tell you to read Gottman so start there.