Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.

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Anonymous wrote:The posters who blame parents for everything, generally they are the parents of a 5 or under who just happens to be very compliant, but they swear it's down to them and doing everything right as a parent.

This, and also one of my least favorite people in real life. Just people who assume that if someone is struggling with something, it must be because they are incompetent, and never because the thing they are struggling with is hard. And on DCUM, so often these posters are smug about stuff that 99% of parents struggle with. Like if I text my mom group about potty training, almost every single person in the group can commiserate with the challenge. But when I read potty training posts on DCUM, you'd think that 90% of children potty train with no issues by 2.5 and that just some small minority of terrible parents run into problems. But the reverse is actually true.

The smug parents here are astonishing. When things go right with my kids, I figure it happened in spite of my parenting and breathe a sigh of relief. I can't imagine being so smug that you think you have parenting all figured out.

A related, but slightly different addition to this list is a particular poster who believes that teen depression and suicidal ideation is nonsense that no parent should put up with.

It's probably the same ahole who is blaming Evan Rache; Wood's parents for her being a victim of abuse, they seriously think because to date their young adult children have not been abusive relationship ( to their knowledge) has to do with her parenting.. I sincerely hope these people never have to be confronted with the truth of how wrong they are.

As a parent I believe that her parents were not doing a good job as parents. They watched it happen and did not step in. It was not a one-and-done event, it occurred over YEARS!!! Yes, they should have done more. Why on earth are you defending them?

Why are you condemning and shaming people you do not know, and whose situation you very clearly have not been?

But humor the hell out of me, and tell us all how good parents manafe this situation?

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The poster who starts every post with "eh . ." or "meh . . .". If you care so little, why post at all? I just scroll past those.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The poster who starts every post with "eh . ." or "meh . . .". If you care so little, why post at all? I just scroll past those.

Meh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The poster who starts every post with "eh . ." or "meh . . .". If you care so little, why post at all? I just scroll past those.

along with the "Yuc" and " gross". Real intelligent input, there, darling.

[Anonymous]

would be so interesting to see comments get upvoted or downvoted. Like the Trump twin talker. People hate her / love her.

But I wouldn't trade what we've got for anything.

[Anonymous]

JFC poster.

[Anonymous]

Just read another thread and comment from this infamous pp, Do you want a cookie?

[Anonymous]

Jason Fung disciple.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The posters who blame parents for everything, generally they are the parents of a 5 or under who just happens to be very compliant, but they swear it's down to them and doing everything right as a parent.

This, and also one of my least favorite people in real life. Just people who assume that if someone is struggling with something, it must be because they are incompetent, and never because the thing they are struggling with is hard. And on DCUM, so often these posters are smug about stuff that 99% of parents struggle with. Like if I text my mom group about potty training, almost every single person in the group can commiserate with the challenge. But when I read potty training posts on DCUM, you'd think that 90% of children potty train with no issues by 2.5 and that just some small minority of terrible parents run into problems. But the reverse is actually true.

The smug parents here are astonishing. When things go right with my kids, I figure it happened in spite of my parenting and breathe a sigh of relief. I can't imagine being so smug that you think you have parenting all figured out.

A related, but slightly different addition to this list is a particular poster who believes that teen depression and suicidal ideation is nonsense that no parent should put up with.

It's probably the same ahole who is blaming Evan Rache; Wood's parents for her being a victim of abuse, they seriously think because to date their young adult children have not been abusive relationship ( to their knowledge) has to do with her parenting.. I sincerely hope these people never have to be confronted with the truth of how wrong they are.

As a parent I believe that her parents were not doing a good job as parents. They watched it happen and did not step in. It was not a one-and-done event, it occurred over YEARS!!! Yes, they should have done more. Why on earth are you defending them?

Why are you condemning and shaming people you do not know, and whose situation you very clearly have not been?

But humor the hell out of me, and tell us all how good parents manafe this situation?

Uh, their daughter was involved in an abusive relationship that lasted for years? They witnessed some of the abuse? Employees of Warner witnessed some of the abuse and they knew about it? I mean, would YOU really stand by and let your daughter continue to be abused for years? Really? Just so you could have the cache of her association with that jerk? Wow. That says way more about you than me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The posters who blame parents for everything, generally they are the parents of a 5 or under who just happens to be very compliant, but they swear it's down to them and doing everything right as a parent.

This, and also one of my least favorite people in real life. Just people who assume that if someone is struggling with something, it must be because they are incompetent, and never because the thing they are struggling with is hard. And on DCUM, so often these posters are smug about stuff that 99% of parents struggle with. Like if I text my mom group about potty training, almost every single person in the group can commiserate with the challenge. But when I read potty training posts on DCUM, you'd think that 90% of children potty train with no issues by 2.5 and that just some small minority of terrible parents run into problems. But the reverse is actually true.

The smug parents here are astonishing. When things go right with my kids, I figure it happened in spite of my parenting and breathe a sigh of relief. I can't imagine being so smug that you think you have parenting all figured out.

A related, but slightly different addition to this list is a particular poster who believes that teen depression and suicidal ideation is nonsense that no parent should put up with.

It's probably the same ahole who is blaming Evan Rache; Wood's parents for her being a victim of abuse, they seriously think because to date their young adult children have not been abusive relationship ( to their knowledge) has to do with her parenting.. I sincerely hope these people never have to be confronted with the truth of how wrong they are.

I was 14 when I got mixed up with an abusive psycho. His claws were so deep into me there was nothing my parents could do to keep me away from him. ERW was a young adult. I doubt her parents could've done anything, either. I think people want to believe it can't happen to them or to their kid, so they blame the parents all the while thinking they are so on top of things/such good parents that their kid will be safe.

[Anonymous]

Why are you condemning and shaming people you do not know, and whose situation you very clearly have not been?

But humor the hell out of me, and tell us all how good parents manafe this situation?

Uh, their daughter was involved in an abusive relationship that lasted for years? They witnessed some of the abuse? Employees of Warner witnessed some of the abuse and they knew about it? I mean, would YOU really stand by and let your daughter continue to be abused for years? Really? Just so you could have the cache of her association with that jerk? Wow. That says way more about you than me.



You, fortunately, do not understand abusive relationships. I do and I can assure you there is nothing anyone -outside of the two people in the relationship- can do to stop it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The poster who starts every post with "eh . ." or "meh . . .". If you care so little, why post at all? I just scroll past those.

along with the "Yuc" and " gross". Real intelligent input, there, darling.

Resorting to “darling” or “sweetie” is also hardly a sign of intelligence or character.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The posters who blame parents for everything, generally they are the parents of a 5 or under who just happens to be very compliant, but they swear it's down to them and doing everything right as a parent.

This, and also one of my least favorite people in real life. Just people who assume that if someone is struggling with something, it must be because they are incompetent, and never because the thing they are struggling with is hard. And on DCUM, so often these posters are smug about stuff that 99% of parents struggle with. Like if I text my mom group about potty training, almost every single person in the group can commiserate with the challenge. But when I read potty training posts on DCUM, you'd think that 90% of children potty train with no issues by 2.5 and that just some small minority of terrible parents run into problems. But the reverse is actually true.

The smug parents here are astonishing. When things go right with my kids, I figure it happened in spite of my parenting and breathe a sigh of relief. I can't imagine being so smug that you think you have parenting all figured out.

A related, but slightly different addition to this list is a particular poster who believes that teen depression and suicidal ideation is nonsense that no parent should put up with.

It's probably the same ahole who is blaming Evan Rache; Wood's parents for her being a victim of abuse, they seriously think because to date their young adult children have not been abusive relationship ( to their knowledge) has to do with her parenting.. I sincerely hope these people never have to be confronted with the truth of how wrong they are.

As a parent I believe that her parents were not doing a good job as parents. They watched it happen and did not step in. It was not a one-and-done event, it occurred over YEARS!!! Yes, they should have done more. Why on earth are you defending them?

Why are you condemning and shaming people you do not know, and whose situation you very clearly have not been?

But humor the hell out of me, and tell us all how good parents manafe this situation?

Uh, their daughter was involved in an abusive relationship that lasted for years? They witnessed some of the abuse? Employees of Warner witnessed some of the abuse and they knew about it? I mean, would YOU really stand by and let your daughter continue to be abused for years? Really? Just so you could have the cache of her association with that jerk? Wow. That says way more about you than me.

You are making a lot of assumptions about people you don't know and a situation you have zero first hand knowledge of.

I asked you what you would have done in that situation and you avoided answering that question and attempted to attack me and my integrity, and turn your short comings on me you should know that that behavior is abusive.

I also now know you are ignorant and likely a troll talking out of your ass.

[Anonymous]

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Why are you condemning and shaming people you do not know, and whose situation you very clearly have not been?

But humor the hell out of me, and tell us all how good parents manafe this situation?

Uh, their daughter was involved in an abusive relationship that lasted for years? They witnessed some of the abuse? Employees of Warner witnessed some of the abuse and they knew about it? I mean, would YOU really stand by and let your daughter continue to be abused for years? Really? Just so you could have the cache of her association with that jerk? Wow. That says way more about you than me.



You, fortunately, do not understand abusive relationships. I do and I can assure you there is nothing anyone -outside of the two people in the relationship- can do to stop it.


Notice not one of them has specified what they would do.

People think they can just barge in drag their child home, threaten the abuser into acting right, threaten to kick their child off, kick them out, talk them out of it, they're clueless

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Why are you condemning and shaming people you do not know, and whose situation you very clearly have not been?

But humor the hell out of me, and tell us all how good parents manafe this situation?

Uh, their daughter was involved in an abusive relationship that lasted for years? They witnessed some of the abuse? Employees of Warner witnessed some of the abuse and they knew about it? I mean, would YOU really stand by and let your daughter continue to be abused for years? Really? Just so you could have the cache of her association with that jerk? Wow. That says way more about you than me.

You, fortunately, do not understand abusive relationships. I do and I can assure you there is nothing anyone -outside of the two people in the relationship- can do to stop it.


Notice not one of them has specified what they would do.

People think they can just barge in drag their child home, threaten the abuser into acting right, threaten to kick their child off, kick them out, talk them out of it, they're clueless

This. So what do you, as a parent DO in this situation? While young, we are talking about a legal ADULT here who also has millions of dollars. You can try to convince her to leave the guy, but she can also cut you off and stop taking your calls. Hell, she could probably get a lawyer to get an order of protection against you barring you from contact if she felt really harassed. Not one person blaming parents or employers has offered some feasible suggestion of how they would handle this situation.