I hope you can see from your high horse how judgmental and rude you are. |
+1 OP posted a snarky update (kind of like her text I imagine) and someone called her a peach. Oh ouch. Meanwhile, SAHMs are alcoholics, people who day drink are losers, etc. |
So was this the kid of the mom you sent the text to? |
Actually, if you had been paying attention, most of the people were responding aggressively to other posters. OP has only posted a few times on here. It is delusional to expect to be invited to an event where you know maybe 1/3 of the people. It's also a sign of being self-absorbed or self-obsessed that you would think you deserve an invitation to all events involving people you know. |
The last three times I got together with a group of other women were for (1) a book club, (2) to plan a memorial for a child who had died, and (3) working on an upcoming event for a non-profit. If my best friend, who is not in my book club and therefore may not have read the book we were discussing, doesn't know the child who died, and has nothing to do with the non-profit or the event, had walked by me while I was with any of those groups, I absolutely would not have invited her to come join us because it would not be appropriate. It is flabbergasting to me that you people would actually use the words you suggested above. I clearly don't know anyone like you because I don't know anyone who would do that, and if I did, I'm quite certain everyone else in the group would think it was really odd. |
OP was asking for nasty, judgmental stories about women that people barely know so she could laugh at them and call them names. So sorry most people didn't comply. |
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+100 |
Ha, you're the one who can't read. This isn't right at all. And also, I'm the PP to whom you are responding, and at the time of my post, OP had not stated that she knew all of the moms, only that she was friends with two and knew three others. So maybe settle down a little bit. |
OPs cheerleaders aren't even reading the thread. OP already came back with her update. Her nasty text seems to have backfired on her as one mom might be avoiding her now, but could be coincidence. |
She said in the OP itself that they were all women from her kids' school, so from the start it was clear these were people she knew on some level. She only clarified the level of friendship of various people because people jumped all over her and accused her of thinking she should be invited to every random gathering of women even if she didn't know them at all. People keep saying "so any group of women is a clique!?" even though OP has always said that these were women she knew (obviously... how would she even have recognized the group if she didn't know them? obviously she knows them). |
I don't understand why you can't understand this. IT IS OK FOR PEOPLE TO INTENTIONALLY EXCLUDE PEOPLE. I intentionally do not invite my neighbor and good friend when a group of us go for a run because she hates running and has a bad knee. I am consciously making the decision NOT to invite Jill on the run. And that is completely ok. |
Sigh. OP's response to this perceived "mean girl" behavior was to attribute the word "clique" (which, if you didn't know, has a negative connotation) to this group of women. Then she requested (actually demanded) that other posters tell stories of other "cliques" describing how awful women are. I don't even care about the text message, although I do think it was not a great thing to try to make that purported friend feel guilty for not doing anything wrong. |
She's the one who emphasized the relationship: 2 are neighbors, 3 she's friendly with. The rest are just faces she recognizes from her kid's classes. That's it. She's not tight with this group and I guess it sucks for her she just realized that. Maybe she should make more effort instead of pouting and sending alienating texts to the few she was friends with. |
You do realize that the majority of the posts on here are in response to things other posters have said, right? You do understand how a forum like this works? |