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Call these people today and get your child in at least twice a week. They get behind so quickly and it's so hard to catch up.
https://www.sdsquared.org |
| NP here, thank you so much to the prior poster for sharing that! |
This!! My rising 2nd grader has made huge strides with a tutor in the last few months. Rich white school and they did nothing for the child. |
| Reading is one of those areas where in my experience, parental involvement and repetitive practice every single day is key. It sounds like you may need to start back at the beginning with bob books and get the sounds down and slowly expand from there. Have your child try reading for 5 minutes, then you can read to them for 20-30 minutes (from a more interesting book to them—maybe Magic Treehouse books?). Slowly increase their reading time and difficulty but always make sure you are reading to them for 20-30 minutes a night as well. Good luck! It’s like potty training. Such a pain while you are going thru it but once your child catches on, they’ll move forward quickly on their own. |
| ^^^it might be true that parental involvement helps but you should get an assessment and professional support if there are still challenges at the end of first grade. Don’t let other parents tell you to just try harder because some children need an entirely different approach that is evidence based. |
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Op, so sorry to hear about this. I suggest (1) get eyes checked by a _Developmental_ Optometrist who has experience with children - a regular Optometrist is not the same and Ophthalmologist is not the same. It isn't just optics, but also how well/poorly the eyes work together.
(2) Test for dyslexia. (3) tutor reading until child us at least 1 semester ahead of his/her expected level, then monitor closely (4) consider adding Kumon Reading as reinforcement |
| Math basics and phonics are truly weak points in the areas private lower schools. |
This is what I’m worried about. I think the private school isn’t going to be able to meet his needs and letting this slide all year has made things worse. I feel like he was on par with peers last year but just went downhill fast this year which caused increasing levels of frustration for him. Hopefully outside testing and help this summer will make a difference. Thank you for all the helpful and thoughtful responses. |
Agree, not a focal point at the “social mission centric” places. And the last year and a half virtual/hybrid/half days, they really dropped their expectations. |
| Get him tested even though it is early and get a tutor. Hold him back - if you wait you'll be in my situation with a rising 6th grader who could have used an extra year. Don't wait to do this...it is harder when older. plus all the private school parents seem to redshirt anyway. |
FWIW, I have one rising from public JKLM to private, another is staying public (for now) the one staying public I just found out is reading at B level mid year and F level now, (2nd expected to start JKL). I had to ask the teacher after child was screened at pediatrician for possible vision problems. I have heard our JKLM public has great supports, and I have heard from a DCPS elementary reading specialist that their school would have flagged and supported my child. The person said public school has resources and its very school dependent and relies on strong parent advocates to get resources if there is a need. Alas, we will support from here and ask for more in the fall. But wanted to add that at public it seems depending on the teacher and the school it’s a scramble. |
All I can say is, what the heck? |
Explode the Code All About Reading Read in 100 Lessons Hooked on Phonics Reading Eggs |
That is interesting. The “reading specialist” at our VA school was coaching parents in 3 cueing. It was appalling. |
| Hooked on Phonics APP |