Something is going to have to give. My son is only a junior this year but there are a few seniors in his friend group who had terrible outcomes this year. They're all kids with excellent grades, scores, and extracurriculars. I know one who has much better stats than my older kid who is a senior at UVA. It's crazy to think that in 3.5 years it has changed so much that my kid probably wouldn't make it in if she applied today. |
Who’s delusional?
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The “Europe is handling covid soooo much better than the US” thing has not aged well. And not just with re: to vaccines. International students may be coming here just to vaccinated and get out of lockdown, if nothing else. |
| I'll tell you what's insane: the parents. You all. Insisting that colleges are out to get your students and screw them over. It just isn't true. If your kids aren't getting into their safeties it isn't because the safeties are protecting yield and rejecting your over-qualified student. It's because you're picking the wrong school as a safety. |
The majority of them. |
No, the schools that were safeties have changed. |
Congratulations, you win the award for most tone deaf question of the year. |
Way to come back PP. |
This - 100%! Something has to give. When you have top students (yes, top grades, SAT, extracurriculars, research, internships, etc.) get shut out of all matches and reaches and sit on 5-7 waitlists, it is going to backfire on these schools. The reality is that all of us have - to some degree - bought into the racket that is the college process. We've encouraged our kids to work their asses off for years, do all the right things, be leaders, excellent in sports, in the classroom and in their communities (all great things by the way). We've encouraged ourselves to save ridiculous amounts of money to fund their educations. The expectation was clear: do these things and you will have qualified for admission to an elite institution (and you'll have the opportunity to pay 80k/year for the experience). This year, that expectation was blown up. If the schools want to upend that process and set new expectations, fine, but they should be prepared for it to backfire. Maybe upper middle class families who have saved for decades to pay for the dream of elite schools decide it isn't worth 80k /year to be jerked around like this. Maybe more will decide that the state school is just fine for undergrad.(It's one thing to pay the 80k for a top school, quite another for a safety.) |
What needs to give is the perception than only a small handful of schools are "good". Or that going to a school that isn't on the top 10 list is a "terrible" outcome. |
NP. Funny thing is, the closer we get to May 1, the more I feel this way on price. Kid is deciding between cheap school and expensive school and is on a waitlist for a top school (that is also expensive). I think to myself, meh, school X isn't really worth that extra 20-30/k per year. The waitlist, and the way this entire admission season feels really dragged out, the less enthusiasm for schools where kid was deferred and waitlisted. The excitement has waned considerably. |
Not if you go to UVA 😉 |
+1 The community college idea is actually a great one. I wonder if the state schools are communicating (which they aren't supposed to, but who knows - there was an issue re: ivies doing this is I believe the 80's, if I recall correctly - and they were in big trouble for having done so) about which students to take. DP here. I know many, many, many students who are grossly disappointed this year, rightfully so. No one wants their kid to be at a school that is a total mismatch, in the name of yield protection. Last year was completely opposite, due to so many deferrals, and I think some parents were hopeful, maybe overly so. Students are going to be at a loss for the next few years, as a result. |
Are all of these parents talking about ivies?? That would be bad and terribly unrealistic. If the kid has the stats, with no "in", then the parents could rightfully be disappointed. The real issue is, too many parents think they can game the system. As the recent debacles (including the change in TJ HS to lottery) has taught us - gaming the system is something the colleges are trying to avoid. Parents really need to let their kids be who they are, not who the parents want them to be, in the name of bragging rights. |
There are only so many spots at the ivies, and that will never change. |