S/O: What do women look at when they’re checking out men’s bodies?

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I think this is a really difficult question to answer. I might see a long lean yoga guy in his late 20s / 30s / 40s with a beard and a man bun and slip on shoes and think there's a kind of elegance that really appeals. Or I might see a big grey haired bear of a man with a twinkle in his eye and a Harley who isn't so tall and he really appeals.

I don't think I can break it down into individual features.

[Anonymous]

Not bald, and the look of hands that know hard work and not the salon.

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Anonymous wrote:I like the thighs and what’s in between. Hands are next that I look at. Is this even a thread? I love all hard muscle guys. sadly DH is not.

+1 I was starting to think I was the only one who likes a nice...package. Lol.

You’re definitely in the minority. I think very few women would actually notice.

Nope. She’s not. Nor am I. Nor are most healthy women I know. It’s a Hollywood stereotype that women lack desire. I know none-but we all complain about our lackluster SOs.

It’s actually the opposite, Hollywood pushes this image that women want sex and are liberated sexually. I think this causes a lot of problems for men and women. Sex for women is way down the list and is usually not connected to a woman’s sexual desire but to something else she wants. It’s biologically risk for a woman to have sex.

I agree that, deep down, women really want someone who will mansplain to them the workings of the world and biology of their desires.