Love the Teachers But Don’t Want to Pay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Omg I’m not whining about it. I know this situation sucks for a lot of people. I started this thread to point out that childcare providers have options other than requiring full payments from families to run their business. I think there are a lot of angry childcare providers on here who are absolutely rabid at the thought that there are other people beyond them who are being hard hit by this pandemic and that not everyone is morally bound and obligated to deplete their savings to pay them.

This. What world do these people live in, and they need to get over themselves. I feel badly for them, just like everyone else who is out of a job because of this mess, but give me a f'ing break. I'm supposed to go into debt and real financial crisis to continue to pay THOUSANDS of dollars a month for a service I'm not receiving??? Grow up.

+2 yep

+1000

[Anonymous]

OP, you need to understand that just because someone hasn’t lost their job and still has an income, doesn’t mean that they are guaranteed to keep their job a month from now. Some of us don’t want to pay for a service we aren’t receiving because we need to save that money in case we get laid off or furloughed. It’s not that we don’t care about the teachers. We do. But this is a true, unprecedented crisis and we need to make sure our family can survive in the coming months if we are out of work.

And to assume it’s “just a few hundred dollars” is absurd. My family’s daycare bills are over $4,000 a month. One month of tuition would pay our mortgage for about two months. So please don’t write it off like daycare is a small expense for people. It’s not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:how can you say you love the teachers and support them all throughout the year, but once adversity hits your school you quibble over a few hundred dollars to ensure they get paid? I understand if someone is in true financial distress, but if you are still working, how can you do that?

A few hundred?! Try a few thousand. A few thousand that was already a stretch for us each month and that we can no longer pay because we are losing some of our income. Stop with the holier than thou preaching about how families are “quibbling” if we don’t go broke keeping other people employed. I feel awful about this situation, I do. But fixing this should not be put on the backs of working families, many of whom were already struggling to afford childcare in order to keep two parents in the workforce.

Good luck getting a spot when you decide you want to pay. I guess you will understand then.

Yep. Fine not to pay if you're not getting the service, but then your slot hel--you'll be scrambling for care when you need it. And if I were the head of the school, I wouldn't be favoring those who abandoned ship when it's time to award spots.

Oh please. Nobody will be “scrambling.” Literally everyone is working from home right now with their children. Sure, your slot may not be held if you don’t pay right now.But “scrambling” to find another provider? What does that look like, SINCE YOU ALREADY HAVE YOUR KIDS AT HOME WITH YOU? Worst case scenario it takes a a few weeks or even a month or so to find replacement care. But plenty of people would be in the same boat. It will take some time for the American workforce to get up to speed again. So

Seriously, think about what you’re saying.

[Anonymous]

I am paying but don’t judge those not paying. Dh and I are federal managers and have very stable jobs. We’re at an inhome daycare and I bet we’re the only ones paying. We’ve been at our daycare for a long time (3 kids!) and our incomes increased a lot but we still stayed because we love her. I feel like if I stopped paying it would be me financially benefiting from this crisis and I morally can’t do that. So I hope my 2 kids tuitions help! She hasn’t raised her rates in 6 years either.

[Anonymous]

Stopped paying the moment they closed.
Called the credit card company to put a block on the too.
Just in case.

Preserving cash for the family is priority one.

That’s how you stay prepared.

No spending on Anything but food, mortgage, basic bills.
No extras. And that’s with two jobs still working for the moment. Conserve conserve conserve cash.