| Figure out the problem and have her stay to tough it out, unless she's suicidal or been raped or something. Maybe she needs a different major or a different dorm to live in. Maybe she needs to take only 12 credits instead of 18. Maybe she needs a pep talk or a simple non-judgmental hug. |
| Are you in MoCo? A state school like UMD might be a good option. |
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Sorry, OP, that your DD has had a rough start. Freshman year can be bumpy so I'm sure it's hard to know if it's fit or adjustment.
If I were in your shoes, I'd keep all options open. Regarding the transfer applications, I don't have a specific school to suggest but would likely include 1-2 near your home since wanting to return is very common and understandable. Then maybe 1 more that she can articulate why it's a good fit. She would have learned a lot by now. Describe what looking for and not why leaving - wording s/b positive. One note: I think transfer apps usually still need a recommendation. I'd also emphasize to her that it can be admirable to make a change if needed. Then you can both see how this semester goes. She might hit a better stride and change her mind. Or, she could possibly take a semester away, and restart again after a break (work, take a local class, etc). Good luck! |
This is not necessarily true--schools and departments vary widely. 3.25 is above the mean for many T50 schools. |