This isn't true - I have friends in the midwest and pacific northwest who are having the same discussions. |
I have an early July girl - and I am worried about her maturity and ability to follow directions. I never, ever would have considered redshirting my older children, who also have summer birthdays, but this one is a handful, and I'm not sure she'll be ready. |
Same. This isn't a DC-only issue. |
Curious where do you go for the testing? What tests are there? |
Also curious that professionals would suggest holding back instead of recommending supports put in place for any diagnoses learning disabilities/psychiatric diagnoses. |
Why do you find this so hard to believe? There are many professionals who feel current K curriculums are inappropriate. |
I'm a former elementary school teacher who posted a few pages ago and my post was ignored as well. I said that the reason you don't hear teachers weighing in on this is because it's not something teacher give time and attention to thinking about. Redshirting is of interest to parents, not teachers. |
Err.. should say professionals (thanks autocorrect). OT, LCSW x2, Developmental pediatrician. The doctor did neurodevelopmental testing and assessment. I'm not sure exactly what the others did but I had to fol out a hundred (ok... maybe 30) decent surveys on him and his behaviors. His teachers also filled them out. |
Obviously this included continuing support from the various professionals. One of the lcsw s (one with the school system) said we could go ahead with K if we wanted and then he would get held back there. But others advised if we held him back now, he would be unaware of being held back. We found a traditional K for him that would also support his needs. |
Holding back only makes things worse for kids who need supports as the younger you start service and supports the better. So, if a true professional recommends no services but hold back, something is really off. We never had anyone say holdback child who had a fall birthday and true SN/delays. What kind of professionals say hold back without some kind of services? |
An LCSW should not be doing evaluations and assessments like that. School system ones tend to have huge bias and generally are not very good. You should have started with a developmental ped. Your child would be aware you held him back. If he is that delayed, he needs services and supports and if someone is telling you that you don't need them and hold back, they are making a poor recommendation. |
An OT should not be making those diagnosis and recommendations. Most of the time if you go to an OT, they will always find something wrong to justify services. |
DP. Redshirting is fine for NT kids. It's fine for kids with SN too, not a poor idea. |
See my response my response above at 21:57.The recommendation came from a developmental pediatrician (among others). And he had been receivingg services both public and private for 2 years. But so glad you made your own story to respond to. |
Same poster. I agree as far as the OT. But the developmental ped made the primary recommendation. |