Thank you! Very much appreciated. |
| I know many bright students who chose privates DCUM would consider ho-hum and it had nothing to do with their inability to get into a strong top 30 U or the state flagship. Generally the LAC is within a few hours from home, let them pay a sport and its size wasn't overwhelming. K-12 private families seem to prefer private college as well. This isn't rocket science... |
What state do you live in and did your son receive merit aid to his match schools? |
We live in Maryland. DC got merit aid from every school he applied to, except UMD-CP, where he was admitted but without merit aid. Every school came in at or under budget, so he was free to choose from among all the schools that accepted him. |
Because there are thousands of colleges and families are trying to figure out which ones to apply to? Because they are trying to use some metric to distinguish between them and not be overwhelmed? |
Demographic changes mean enrollment will continue to shrink. Also, we're not in a recession right now, so fewer people enrolling as a.stopgap while unemployed or to improve their resumes. |
Thanks, this was very helpful. |
| I have a pay wall for Washington Post, can anyone tell a few of the noteworthy, or "most prestigious", ones they mention? |
We did pretty much the same thing with those two books for our three DCs (though we did not limit them geographically) and had the same results for each one as she and her son did. We are in Virginia, though. Each one of my kids had excellent public and private options that were all affordable, with the private SLACs costing roughly the same as in-state thanks to merit-aid, other than the travel costs. In the end two of my DCs decided to attend UVa and the other (who wanted to get far away from northern Virginian type A people) attended a SLAC that is a College that Changes Lives college. Hands down he got a better, more personal education, with numerous opportunities to explore his field outside the classroom, small class sizes, professors who were there to teach and mentor rather than focus on research, etc. I suppose there is still time for one of the two at Uva to have similar experiences but given class size and advisors who barely know them, I'm not too hopeful. |
St Johns College in Annapolis. |
Thanks! |
There are lots of reasons, of course. As I look ahead to my kid going to college, I often think about my former boss, who referred to his alma mater and large public university as "13th grade," meaning that he and his peer group just assumed they would automatically go there, without regard for whether it was the right environment, would lead to good jobs, would be a personally meaningful experience. He happened to be one of the the least engaging, least empathetic, and least imaginative people I have ever met. Perhaps I should not correlate his college selection experience to his later personality traits, but I do. That's one of the main reasons I want my kid to consider the top in state schools, but also look more broadly. I want college to be a meaningful experience for him, not 13th-16th grades. |