Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wait until they have to live their life out of suitcases and have to deal with the guilt of who to see during the holidays. They will beat themselves up over it and internalize more than you will ever comprehend.
None of it is real to them.
Wait until they're trying to care for two aging adults in two far-apart locations, and trying to dump responsibility for their new spouses on you as well. My parents' divorce as a teenager was nothing compared to what my 50s have been like.
Hope you have lots of money, OP. You're going to need it, to maintain two separate households for the rest of your life.