Incredibly helpful, thank you. I am not used to doing that kind of budget. I usually just budget for fixed expenses and then, whatever we have left over, we contribute to other items that are in the budget you just posted. The lack of budget is what is killing us. I realize that. |
| This is OP. I guess I should have mentioned that our household income just got to 230K. It was 210K as of two weeks ago. So now that we have more, we can use more to get out of this hole. |
I just looked into this last night and will do it. Thanks. |
Congratulations! This is a big shovel! I imagine that taxes are killing you guys because you aren't contributing much to your 401ks. Up those retirement contributions! You can do this! |
| Look into YNAB or Mint. I haven't used them myself, so maybe others can chime in, but I think you'll find them helpful. And definately check out Dave Ramsey. You can download his podcasts. Very motivating. |
How do you both work and only pay $400 for childcare? Was that a typo? |
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Get YNAB subscription (stands for you need a budget). It will help you track where every dollar of your spending (and saving) is going. I would build up $2,000 in cash. Then start contributing to 401Ks so you can get employer match. Then start a debt snowball with your highest interest rate loan. How good is your credit? Can you get that credit card debt onto a 0% card?
I wouldn't be in a hurry to deal with the cars (unless you and your husband are super motivated). Get a good picture of your finances, start saving, and start paying off your debt. |
The kid is in first grade public school. It's not a full time daycare it's probably an after care program through the school |
We have a school age child that uses after school care only via SACC. |
Agree. The car part is a bit complicated. Spend a couple of months getting a handle on where your money is going and work on slashing expenses and rolling that debt snowball. Then see what you can do with the cars. |
Thanks! We were always told that we should get rid of debt first and THEN save the max for retirement. I paid off $7K of high-interest CC debt last night, so that's gone. Now I need to tackle this car situation. |
Ok, I have Mint already but I realize I need to refine my budget and add other things that aren't fixed daily living expenses. I like some of Dave's stuff but some of his views on housing are hard to adhere to here in the DC area. It's very expensive here. |
So I have Mint already, is YNAB better? My 401K employer benefits suck, honestly. But I'll still contribute more. My credit isn't that great because of the 6 months of unemployment but I'm working to rebuild it. The credit card debt is gone now. I felt like that needed to go first because of the 24% interest. Thank you for the helpful reply! |
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OP here. Here is an update to the debt situation:
Credit cards: $7K @ 24% (These have been paid) Car: $30K ($820 payment monthly w/48 months remaining) Car: $17K ($492 payment monthly w/48 months remaining) DH's CC consolidation loan: $11K @ 5% interest (He just got this a few months ago) |
I think you can apply his principles without adhering to exactly everything he says. In this area, most people would have a hard time with his exact recommendations of 15 year mortgage and 25% of take home pay. You can still follow his advice if you have a 30 year mortgage and a slightly higher payment. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. Follow his steps and use the debt snowball and get "gazelle-intense", and you'll be in fine shape even if your housing is off from his advice. Follow the spirit of the law, if not the exact letter of the law. |