| My guess is the graduation is over. What did you do OP? |
| I think the sibling gets the option of going. If they don't want to, fine, but they should be given first priority. Even for my grad school graduation when I was an adult, my brother was given priority to get the last ticket (after DH and my parents). I would never have missed my brother's high school nor college graduations. Yes, it may mean more to the grandparents at the time but my grandparents have been dead for 10-25 years. But I still remember the graduations. |
+1. I’d be secretly jumping up and down not to attend a siblings graduation ceremony. Extremely boring for the siblings. Let the grandparents go!! |