Women: Would you date a bi sexual man?

[Anonymous]

No way. Males who have same sex partners are at much higher risk in a whole range of categories, including health, crime...

[Anonymous]

No. I think I would drive myself crazy wondering if I satisfied him in bed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would and have.

Why? it doesnt bother that you have twice the competition?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The stereo-typing and homophobia are hilarious coming from the enlightened women of DCUM.

I'd venture to guess, most men wouldn't give a rat's ass if his new girlfriend was bi.

Which is the evolved gender?

Men already trend to non monogomy and scoping all women's butts now women have to add man butt as well?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I have many gay friends, voted for gay marriage and consider myself open-minded, but I want my man to be heterosexual.

You have many gay friends whose lifestyle you agree with and who if they are really your friends you trust. So why can't you trust a bisexual man and stop thinking negative things about him enough to date or sleep with him?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No, I wouldn't. It turns me off on a visceral level to think about my man being with another man. I'm 100% pro gay marriage and 100% open minded about not caring at all what others do inside their bedrooms- there are just certain things I'm into or not into for me personally - and that's one.

Why? Do you think he would be scarfing down a penis one night and having sex with you the next night?

Sure, perhaps.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I have many gay friends, voted for gay marriage and consider myself open-minded, but I want my man to be heterosexual.

You have many gay friends whose lifestyle you agree with and who if they are really your friends you trust. So why can't you trust a bisexual man and stop thinking negative things about him enough to date or sleep with him?

Because we don't want you. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I wouldn't. It turns me off on a visceral level to think about my man being with another man. I'm 100% pro gay marriage and 100% open minded about not caring at all what others do inside their bedrooms- there are just certain things I'm into or not into for me personally - and that's one.

+1 It's just a turn-off to me personally. I'm drawn to men because they are different from me, and part of that is the contrast of their masculinity to my femininity - it's just a visceral thing. So for that reason, men who sleep with men just don't do it for me, sexually or even emotionally.

I will also say that I've read thread after thread here about women who complain of their low libido partners who claim to be bisexual - but are probably gay. I'm certainly not saying it's a common scenario and that it's not possible to be bisexual, but it would be a concern. And I guess I secretly think that bisexual men probably prefer men to women - not sure why and of course I could be wrong. But all this would be enough to deter me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No, I wouldn't. It turns me off on a visceral level to think about my man being with another man. I'm 100% pro gay marriage and 100% open minded about not caring at all what others do inside their bedrooms- there are just certain things I'm into or not into for me personally - and that's one.

+1 It's just a turn-off to me personally. I'm drawn to men because they are different from me, and part of that is the contrast of their masculinity to my femininity - it's just a visceral thing. So for that reason, men who sleep with men just don't do it for me, sexually or even emotionally.

I will also say that I've read thread after thread here about women who complain of their low libido partners who claim to be bisexual - but are probably gay. I'm certainly not saying it's a common scenario and that it's not possible to be bisexual, but it would be a concern. And I guess I secretly think that bisexual men probably prefer men to women - not sure why and of course I could be wrong. But all this would be enough to deter me.

Well, there's a huge amount of stigma to actually being gay, probably even more so for men than for women. On the other hand there's a huge encouragement and cultural rewards for being heterosexual and married. So you have to think that that factors into the decision. Kind of like someone getting $1 million for moving across country, but then trying to claim they moved just because they wanted to. A bit hard to believe, I guess.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The stereo-typing and homophobia are hilarious coming from the enlightened women of DCUM.

I'd venture to guess, most men wouldn't give a rat's ass if his new girlfriend was bi.

Which is the evolved gender?

We're liberals! We have gay friends! Homosexuality is the best sexuality! Until it's ickiness shows up on our doorstep.

It's not ickiness, it's simply what turns me on sexually - and men who are into the penis do not. That doesn't make me homophobic.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Would and have.

Why? it doesnt bother that you have twice the competition?

Nope. And I don't see other women as "competition" when I'm with a straight man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Would and have.

Same. He ended up being a terrible boyfriend but that was due to the fact that he's a jerk, nothing to do with his sexuality. And FTR, he never cheated, which is always the assumption against bi people, that they're some sort of genetically engineered super slut. He was just a mean (but entirely monogamous) person.

A good friend is bi and recently married his long term girlfriend. He is honestly such a great catch and treats her like gold. [/

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Anonymous wrote:Before I answer, I want to know why you ask.

I'm not the rabbit guy. I'm a woman, and I met a great guy through friends. I am well aware that he has dated men and women. Mostly women, but a couple men. We get along well, we have fun. There seems to be a connection. He is athletic, very smart, and an all around good person. I am going back and forth on if I want to date him though

Married a bi guy. No problems! He's a wonderful husband.

[Anonymous]

It's a no from me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Just a personal hang-up of mine.

OMG, it's not a hang-up. It's their issue, not yours.