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I'm Asian-American and OP, I totally get your concerns. FWIW, I'm not sure there are any independent schools in DC with an Asian population that's sizable enough to make a difference. (Among public schools, I think Thomson has the most Asian-American students, but the school isn't universally acclaimed.) Honestly, you're not going to find any school in the city - public or private - that comes even close to having enough Asian-American students for them to not feel like a minority. I struggle with the same conflict, between the desire to stay in the city and the pressure to move out into the suburbs to find an Asian community of any sort.
Good luck. |
That's because they are a minority. |
Forgot to add that in my kid's class, there are 2 students who are Asian, 1 of whom is adopted, and 2 kids who are Hapa, for a total of 4 out of 24 kids. |
1 out of 6, 16%--that's not enough to make you comfortable? DC is not California. |
Exactly the same as blacks, right? |
I was going to say FCPS AAP hands down. |
I don't know what point you're trying to make. My point is that they are a minority, and it is perfectly fine to realize that you are a minority group as long as you are not made to feel less than others. What's the alternative? That each ethnic group should represent more than 50% of the school population? |
There are a few token Asians in each grade. |
It is only the %. There are only 80 kids in a grade, so 5% is 4 kids, 10% is 8 kids. Then you have girls and boys - not much of any mass! |
I am Asian with kids in private. I called them token Asians. Of course schools are not as aggressive to recruit Asians as blacks or Hispanics, but you also have to consider the sizes of the schools and the population makeup in NW DC. Even with over representation, you are talking about a few kids in a grade. It is hard. I am sure it is just as hard for the black and Hispanic students as well. |
15:06 here, and i should have said "marginalized," instead of "like a minority." Of course each ethnic group can't represent more than 50%, but each should feel that their backgrounds, experiences, and perspectives matter, and that doesn't always happen when you're the only or one of a few. |
| I don't know as much about the DC schools, but in VA and MD I've noticed that the attitude among my Asian American friends is that there is no reason to pay that much money for private schools when publics are so good. Usually it is the white families who choose to, because they went to private schools as children and feel it is necessary to send them there to secure their position in the social order. |
| NoVa is the place to be for wealthy asian americans. |
+1, same with my Asian American friends here in VA. And I do see their point: why pay for something when the public here is so strong. Save the money for college. So to some of the PP about private schools do better job recruiting Asian Americans, I don't think there's anything school can do. Many of the Asian American families make too much to qualify for FA, but not wealthy enough to spend that extra $140+k to put one kid through just private HS. |
Why? There seems to be plenty in MoCo, too. |