Is this name really that bad?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s my brother’s name! But spelled Stefan. Friends call him Stef. I’m biased but I love it.

It's a great name when spelled properly, as is your brother's.

[Anonymous]

If is spelled Stephen he will be called Steven in the US.

[Anonymous]

They’re overreacting. It’s cute and also on my baby name list. We might put it in the middle name spot because I want to use an honor name as the first name.

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Anonymous wrote:The thing about naming a boy Stefan, but spelling it Stephen/Steven, is that every time he corrects someone with the correct pronunciation he will sound pretentious. No, it's Stef fen.

It doesn’t help that the only Stefan that I’ve ever met was super conceited and pretentious. He came from a wealthy background and quite literally thought that he was God’s gift to the world. His parents were immigrants from Europe (either Croatia or Serbia - can’t remember at the moment). It’s not a very common name here in the US.

[Anonymous]

Great name, but don’t spell it as Stephen. Stephen and Steven are pronounced the same in the U.S. You’ll want to spell it as Stefan.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's going to have the world calling him some combination of

Steff-en
Steven
Steff-aaaahn

I have a name that's pronounced a million different ways and it's absolutely obnoxious. I wouldn't do that to a kid.

Agree. The world is dumber than you think. Change the spelling. Also, no one would have batted an eye if you hadnt revealed the name until after he arrived. Rookie move.

So somehow we should all know OP wants DC’s name to be pronounced differently than 99% of the other kids with the same name?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They’re overreacting. It’s cute and also on my baby name list. We might put it in the middle name spot because I want to use an honor name as the first name.

Cute but misspelled

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Anonymous wrote:We've told our families that we're naming our son Stephen (steff-en), and the reactions that we've gotten have not been great. My mom is intentionally pronouncing it as Steven in an attempt to get us to change our minds. My brother has commented that it sounds like a "sissy" name. The only person who seems to like the name is my father-in-law.

I don't expect everyone to praise us for our baby name or be jumping for joy, but it would be nice if they could at least pretend to like it (just smile and nod) or remain neutral for our sake. 😅 Is there something that we're missing here? I feel like everyone is being melodramatic and juvenile over an ordinary name.

It is affected. At some point he is going to switch to just plain Steve. Don't make your child's life intentionally difficult

[Anonymous]

A very millennial reaction but when I hear "Stefan" I think of Bill Hader's character from SNL.

[Anonymous]

That is exactly why we kept the names to ourselves until the babies were born.

[Anonymous]

Stiffen

[Anonymous]

Your spelling/pronunciation combo is pretentious and high maintenance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That is exactly why we kept the names to ourselves until the babies were born.

I dunno, I think my nephew dodged a bullet because my brother chose to share the name he was pushing on his wife. FWIW I don't think my sis in law would have given in, but all of his siblings going "oh no, she's right" helped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We've told our families that we're naming our son Stephen (steff-en), and the reactions that we've gotten have not been great. My mom is intentionally pronouncing it as Steven in an attempt to get us to change our minds. My brother has commented that it sounds like a "sissy" name. The only person who seems to like the name is my father-in-law.

I don't expect everyone to praise us for our baby name or be jumping for joy, but it would be nice if they could at least pretend to like it (just smile and nod) or remain neutral for our sake. 😅 Is there something that we're missing here? I feel like everyone is being melodramatic and juvenile over an ordinary name.

The only thing you're missing is the rule we instituted after our first - never share the name until after the baby arrives.

[Anonymous]

Steph Curry has this name and has got to be the most famous "Stephen" alive. I also think Stefan is pronounced differently (Ste-FAHN), so it's not a solution to me. People will often get it wrong, but I don't think there's anything wrong with the name. Up to you to decide how much you care what other people think.