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University of Florida. Very, very, very shiny, bright and happy people!
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No one cares. You missed the point. |
You're ivy student is special and worthy of mentions in posts for "roll with the punches" ability. Anyone else's student that manages to have a success is not worthy of mention. We get it. |
Well it's accurate. Those with EQ, those who are team players and go above and beyond and people like go far in life. Sure you need a certain level of smarts to get there but beyond that you have to be able to work well with others. My 1220/3.5Uw/no AP kid went to a t100 struggled and found their way, graduated with 3 W and a 3.4 gpa. Had a great job immediately upon graduation and is doing well. We always knew that because everywhere they worked/volunteered always loved them and promoted them/gave them more responsibilities, because they could be counted upon. Meanwhile some of their "smarter friends" are still struggling because they are looking for the "right job" . Smarts is only a small part, the rest comes from your work ethic and what you actually do! |
| You and your kid, OP, are academic snobs. If you want to try to find a school with only kids you think are smart enough, go ahead and try, but my TO kid is exceeding your expectations, doing great, learning a lot at college, getting internships and following his dream. And my kid knows how to get along with kids of all abilities, so that is probably a useful skill in the future. |
EQ is so important! It’s incredibly valuable and something quite different than IQ and work ethic. And to state the obvious, these traits are not mutually exclusive. I’ve met a handful of people over my life who truly have all three. They have extraordinary natural IQ wattage and firepower, insane work ethic and stamina, and a level of EQ that opens every door and makes everyone happy to befriend, associate with, or work for/with them. These people are rare (obviously) and truly unforgettable, at least for me. And I have no doubt that in college they were the 1580, crazy work ethic/wildly productive type, while ALSO being the engaging friend everyone wanted to hang out and drink with. Life is not always either/or. Some people are multi-dimensionally gifted! |
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EQ and IQ are not mutually exclusive. In fact they often accompany each other. Trump is a good example, with both EQ and IQ low. Most of the high IQ kids I know also have high EQ, and vice versa.
It's funny whenever talking about high IQ kids, magas and anti-intellectuals always want to emphasize on EQ. But no, those high IQ kids also have high EQ. |
Why are you so nasty? |
You too, no need here to be so nasty |
+1 So dumb. |
+100 So many very special snowflakes never got this message. |
I was one of 5 NMFs from my high school. A kid who wasn't among us got a PhD from Chapel Hill and is a Dean of Engineering at a large university. I found out from junk mail I received on behalf of my h.s. junior. I have a Master's from a Top 20 B-School and am an "independent contributor" at an F500. Meaning not even middle management after 20+ years. Having good people skills > high SAT. Excellent elementary school prep helps the brightest children a lot. Not to mention tutoring and other aids. Math is very badly taught in elementary school. If you have no natural interest in it, that depresses your scoring ability when compounded with mediocre teaching. |
True. Chicago was once brainiac central. Now it’s struggling to save its life ($6.6 billion in the hole) and marketing furiously to climb the rankings services. |
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Students with perfect and near perfect SATs get rejected from the top colleges every year and people with less than perfect or near perfect scores get accepted to them.
It is the work and effort your student does in some area that is unique that is going to bring their story to life and make them stand out from the rest of the applicants that will get them into the coveted level of brainy school that you so desperately want for your child that is so bright without working hard. This thread is so not what I thought based on the title. It is understandable to want a good cohort for your student, you need to look beyond test scores. |
There’s another thread on this: absolute number of students with scores 1530+. The schools with the most are MIT Caltech Penn and Hopkins. Thats where the most brainiacs are these days. Stanford Yale Harvard Princeton were close behind. |