House/FCPS location complex situation
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Anonymous
What is your housing budget? Langley/Mclean/Oakton are great choices if you can afford to live in those areas. I honestly think you’re overthinking this. I get it, dh and I had a hard time agreeing when we moved to this area. Our main issue was on the home. We were fortunate to have an amazing realtor who understood both our perspectives and found the right solution. On schools, we ended up going the Catholic school route, which I originally was not interested in but changed my mind before we moved here. Assuming you have the budget for it, those schools are great. Lake Braddock/ Robinson/ WS will be more middle class and are fine choices as well, but if you can afford a $2m house, you’ll be with your people at the other ones. |
Anonymous
They’re all good schools but Fairfax Station and Clifton have some $2m homes too. Not all of the kids at Lake Braddock or Robinson live in them but it’s not as if none of the kids do. But if you’re someone who needs to be with “your people” like PP, I guess you wouldn’t want to interact with the regular middle class people at those schools. |
Anonymous
Sock puppet much? OP doesn’t know any better - to stereotype. She has stated she is repeating opinions of family and friends and is confused. Who wouldn’t be?! Aren’t we a bit much (extra as my teen daughter would say) here on DCUM. I have never across an adult forum with such nasty posts. It don’t know if it’s 1 in 5 people here or if it’s the same few people who have nothing better to do. I am not surprised at all at these differing opinions either. Anyone who has spent any time on DCUM shouldn’t be and isn’t. |
Anonymous
This was not sock puppeting. Feel free to check with the moderator of this forum. OP is either a troll or just looking for people to reaffirm her own preferences, which differ from those of her spouse. She came back days later and basically repeated her original post, which sent a message that others just wasting their time by treating her inquiry as one made in good faith. |
Anonymous
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OP, your friends are not wrong. The top rated schools with rich parents do have preppy kids. Stereotyping or not, that’s the case not just in FCPS. How is that news?
The academic aspect is also great. So if you can reconcile the two, go for it. Check out the prestige schools thread here lol and you will know which is the list for ‘second tier’ schools. If you want to go even smaller, more diverse and uber focused on education, go to Loudoun county. This is a big decision and if you are new, it can be a daunting task. Ignore the mean people here. My partner and I were also not on the same page initially. I actually wanted to move back to MD. So I understand. GL. |
Anonymous
| Why is no one is talking about the FCPS boundary changes. Waiting to make a decision to not be stuck with a pyramid you didn’t choose would be the right choice. Private for a year or two. There may be more clarity by next year. Also interest rates may go down and more houses on the market. |
Anonymous
DP. I called it earlier yesterday. OP is too high maintenance for public schools. She posted the same question previously in the AAP forum and seemed shocked the MS wouldn't give her kid a personalized tour of the school lockers. She should quickly find a private school that still has an opening. |
Anonymous
This data is a little old, but I heard Sangster is one of the wealthiest elementary schools in FCPS |
Anonymous
Not PP. But “days later”. You seem to be spending too much time here and seem to have lost all sense of time. The original post was on 5th and I just checked, follow-up post was yesterday on 6th. How is that days later?! Be nice. I see a couple of posters picking on OP. The poster and their family seem to have gone through or going thru some tough times like some of us have. |
Anonymous
Even more reason not to come back here so quickly and repeat the same crap as in the first post. No one is going to change her mind. She just wants affirmation that she's right and her DH is wrong. |
Anonymous
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OP, it sounds like you might be happiest with a pyramid like Lake Braddock, West Springfield, or Woodson. All are AP high schools. All three are solidly MC to UMC, and well-regarded. West Springfield and Lake Braddock in particular have a higher percentage of military families and see more transition in the student population (so may be a bit more welcoming for new kids transitioning in).
There’s no doubt that McLean, Oakton and Langley are good schools, but they do skew wealthy and college admissions may be a bit more competitive. They are generally considered the most “prestigious” because the neighborhoods feeding them are the most consistently expensive. Kids may feel more pressure there to wear designer clothes, take fancy vacations, etc. Chantilly is also more middle of the road but—right or wrong—it does have a reputation as being higher pressure (possibly due to its higher percentage of Asian students). Ten to fifteen years ago, Woodson had a similar reputation, but it seems to have gotten less intense in recent years. There is a popular synagogue in the Woodson neighborhood that may be a plus if your family is Jewish. |
Anonymous
I agree with this poster mainly. But it seems to me that OP may not be comfortable with these solid middle class and perhaps slightly high FARMS schools. She seems more the private school kind. That’s why her spouse sensibly suggested the other schools. Also maybe from an investment perspective as well. No house near the schools you suggested will appreciate much. The only reason I would pick these if my child was not AAP oriented then he may have a better chance at state college admissions unlike the top tier ones as you mentioned. |
Anonymous
I haven't really heard the term "preppy" as applied to high school kids, but Langley would absolutely have a great percentage of whatever the Gen Z equivalent is of that 80s-/90s term. Demographics/diversity doesn't mean anything. Back in my day *reaches for the spectacles and starts the rocking chair moving* my multiracial high school had Black American, White, Asian (both south and east) and Hispanic "preppies." In fact, the Asian and Hispanic kids save one family (who were part Italian metalheads) were exclusively preppy, recent immigrants from points south excluded. |
Anonymous
I think I know which post and you are making things up about the locker. I wonder why you are so invested in this thread that you keep coming back to make disparaging comments. OP, I responded earlier as one of mine is an AAP student, the other not. They are both happy at Lake Braddock. Our house is under $1M though as are most in the neighborhood. |
Anonymous
You want wealthy, go to LCPS. |