Oh wow, ot was not my idea - in fact it was his idea and he insisted. And the ES principal encouraged the skip. The attacks on acceleration can also include oh you stole the youngsters formative years. Try to come up with something new. |
Nope and nope. I was the first in my family to go to college (still only actually, 15 years later) so there was 0 understanding of how it all worked. Once I realized what happened I begged them to file taxes married filing separately. She declined because then her husband would owe more taxes. That was not great for our relationship. My point in making this post is that sometimes its a place of privilege to not rush through. |
It's not fair to compare a female to a male. I'd say the PP's daughter has at least as much to be proud of as your son when you control for gender. |
Just wait until you're old and your son refuses to take care of you because you robbed him of having a childhood. |
Why would anyone be envious of someone who is emotionally less mature than their classmates and can’t drive or go to bars when their classmates/roommates can? |
The OP will realize this when they’re left fend for themselves in their old age because their son won’t be able to forgive them. |
No, they gave him and amazing young adulthood. I know I would have loved to be in his shoes as a young adult. |
And college classes are taught by grad students. What's your point? You don't need to be a professor to teach calculus. |
| https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ746290.pdf - I suggest reading the introduction and the section titles "Outcomes of Acceleration and Nonacceleration" |
| Well, they rushed at some point. If they didn’t rush during college, they rushed before college. |
This. Generally, kids who are accelerated in school end up being less successful than those who aren’t. |
Yeah, but this is college we’re talking about, not K-12. Age differences matter a lot less in adulthood. A nineteen-year-old simply doesn’t have the same advantages over an eighteen-year-old that a nine-year-old has over an eight-year-old. |
You clearly clearly didn't read the article |
I was referring to the previous comment about the son who accelerated in K-12 |
That's a good question to ask the parents of these kids. Most people who graduate college early do so because of decisions that were made for them by their parents when they were in high school and were minors. |