I get why it happens, though. If the counselor discourages one kid from applying (even by just providing numbers) and their parent gets mad because another "less deserving" kid gets admitted, they'll claim discrimination and lawsuit incoming. You see it on this forum -- "the counselor advocated for x kid ED and discouraged others from applying because the parents were big donors" or whatever. It's why many private schools don't supply this information either. |
I’m not PP but my kid just got admitted to an Ivy (and I calmly expected a denial or a deferral). I agree that if parents would calm down, this whole college application process stress could get dialed down 1000x. |