The fact that you think this is notable, and that it must be North Carolina, is interesting to me. I’m 44 and the parent of a senior. We’ve taken a bunch of college tours. (Net worth is $4.5M.) |
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$500 a month into market for 30 years would be about a million now. I know why I don't have it, but I'm nearing it now after getting serious about it.
I have some idea why most of my friends, co-workers, relatives, and acquaintances don't have one million NW and why others do. |
You must be a child bride. Just kidding. But seriously I lived in Manhattan when single and I was literally dating, going to clubs out in the Hamptons in my early 30s and all my friends single and I was dating girls my age. My youngest I turned 50 when she was in kindergarten. And in NY plenty of Dads were younger than me. Weird to see moms so young, people born in 1980s with kids in college strange. They are like children to me. |
Manhattan is literally #2 for the oldest average age of first time mothers in the US. The average age for first time fathers is around 3 years older. So the average mother with a college degree has her first child at 33 in Manhattan and the average age of a first time father (with a college degree) in Manhattan is probably around 36. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/08/04/upshot/up-birth-age-gap.html |
Simple---most Americans do not value saving. There is always something they "need" (and 95%+ of the time it's a want, not a need). they run up credit card debt and pay high interest for "wants" and then it's a hard hole to dig yourself out of. Also a mindset that is difficult to change---you have to stop keeping up with the joneses and live within your means. |
For me it's not lack of saving, it's lack of investing. I always saved. I came as an immigrant with no financial sense other than "don't spend unless you have to" and my dh comes from low income big spender parents so is completely risk averse. Didn't start investing more seriously (beyond 401k) until a few years ago. If I could go back and invest in my 20s, I'd be a millionaire easily. |
Same. First generation here and my parents worked so hard but I don’t think I ever heard the word investing once in my house. Trying to catch up and I’m teaching my kids. |
That too! We need to educate MS/HS kids so they realize this. |