Multiple months in summer to take the extended trip |
DP, people get sick all the time and miss working in school. Just make sure, going forward, that you’re not one of those posters that piles on the bandwagon when somebody’s complaining that a teacher missed several school days. |
No, that's not why. It's because we have become progressive and requiring lower income families to follow rules is mean and we don't want to be mean. Being nice is nicer (even if it harms the children who are the ones who need to be in school for academic and non-academic learning). |
That’s homeschooling, then, if your educational choices are more valuable than the teacher’s. You have no idea how much it slows down classes to continually have to bring different kids up to speed. |
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My neighbor at a Title 1 school said their ES is also pushing kids to attend school more also. They were told it is a factor in boosting their school score.
We do know many families who take their ES kids out on vacations in excess of 10 days per year, outside of Spring break as its more convenient for them and apparently, they are the type of families the effort is being aimed at, not the sick kids. There is a culture of "its ok to take take kids out on family vacations at any time," and they are focusing in on this issue. |
This is what I'm thinking. Wrong message students and staff should be home if they have a fever or infection. |
Are you saying that the kids who go on vacation for a week are harmed? Is there data to back up a week in the Bahamas hurting a kid academically? I know there are studies showing that FARMS and ELL kids missing school perform poorly academically, but do those studies show the same thing for UMC kids with highly educated parents taking vacation? |
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PP and I’m going to mention that possibly in the interest of stabilizing attendance, students with active, visible live lice can stay in school. Yes, even if they are scratching and uncomfortable and even if the teacher notices. Lice is now considered a public health “nuisance.” Possibly a principal can override but this is the new health department-FCPS agreement.
Also same protocol dictates that a student can also stay in school even after vomiting. If it’s a one-time event and without a fever and or diarrhea, can stay in school. A kid can have a jacking dry cough all day long and if there’s no fever, they stay. Oh - red, itchy eyes are fine but if there’s mucus or goopy discharge- sent home. Ticket home is report of diarrhea, fever over 100.4 longer than 20 minutes, or anything that requires a 911 call or delivery of an epi pen. Students sent home w/ diarrhea/fever/vomiting are told to be asymptomatic and fever free for 24 hours without use of analgesics or something like Pepto. |
DP - there’s probably no data either way, but 1) regardless of your SES, it gets more difficult for a kid to miss a week in the higher grades. ES is maybe negligible, MS is difficult, HS they will definitely find themselves behind. 2) there are more than likely no studies on the affects of absenteeism by class/income, because sadly, the majority of kids in the US are low income. They also aren’t generally missing school to spend a week at Disney - it’s more days here and there because they missed the bus and no one could drive them, they had to help with child care, older kids didn’t feel like going, or they wanted to pick up a shift at a job. Stuff like that. Then they start to get behind and now they really don’t want to go because their grades are slipping and they don’t understand the material. It builds on itself. That’s the reality for the average student in the US, not a kid being out for a week with a bad case of pneumonia + all the other less serious illnesses and they end up missing 18 days, or a kid taking a week long Caribbean cruise in May. |
It’s not the UMC families that are missing all the days at school. |
PP. Yep. |
That’s a lot of words to admit there’s no evidence it’s harming high achievers at the secondary level. |
DP. There is a disruption to the classroom. Imagine having students throughout the year coming and going for extended periods. Now that teacher has to either cobble together a "work packet" that may or may not get done by student on vacation, spend instruction time or non-class time getting the student up to speed, and has to rework or slow down the lessons to accommodate the absences. For every parent who thinks it's just their kid who'll be out for an extra week in March, there are half a dozen other families thinking the same. |
Adding additional strain on teachers, which leads to more leaving the profession. Does that finally have a first hand consequence for you to stop being entitled and self centered? |
I know UMC and MC families who have received letters for high absenteeism because they pulled their kids for vacations due to cost, one of the kids was a 9th grader. They took 2 different cruises after breaks because it was less expensive and less crowded. There are plenty of MC and UMC families taking month long international trips to visit family. The excuse for taking all of January is because the temperatures are better then in the summer when it is too hot to do anything during the trip. I know plenty of families who make their way back to various Asian countries for Lunar New Year and stay for an extended trip because it is expensive to fly and it take so long to get there. The difference is that most of the parents doing this are in a place to support their kids with school work and try and find ways to complete school work during the trip. You see people posting on this site asking for VPN info to access schoology on a pretty regular basis. Some will ask parents for class work, which causes the Teacher extra work if they agree to get things together for the family. So the kids might be completing work while they are out but there will be work that has to be made up when they come home. The poor families with high absentee rates tend to have kids missing school because there isn't a parent available to get the child up and out to school, school isn't a priority, the child is needed to work, the child is needed to watch siblings, or the parents are not home to realize that the child is choosing to not go to school. The parents are normally not in a place to help the child with school work and the child falls farther and farther behind in school. |