Apparently you've never heard of Burning Tree or Farmington |
PP here and member at one of them. Frankly not that hard. |
| Well, yeah. If you were truly wealthy--you could hop your jet and golf in the Caribbean with a view of the sparkling blue water not at some traffic-burdened Maryland country club with bland food. |
| The real barometer of a tier I club is if they have Caddie Day from 1pm to 1:15pm on a random weekday. |
+1. Can't believe all the serious responses. |
There is plenty of cheap real estate in the US too. I am talking about houses you would actually want to buy in truly desirable locations, not some crap holes. Granted any crap hole in Italy is generally nicer than most places in the US and the food is much better in general but I would not just buy any house. The really nice properties in desirable sea side locations where you would actually want to spend your summer really are not that cheap. |
Funny thing about this is that many of the places the "truly wealthy" go to play golf in the Caribbean -- Baker's Bay, Lyford, Mill Reef -- are (you guessed it!) country clubs. |
True--but much nicer ones than we have in the DMV! |
| Middle class golfers play at public courses. Or they are like my golf-crazy father, who worked a second job at an exclusive club pro shop just so he could occasionally play on the exclusive club's terrific course. Middle class people are not members at these places. |
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A few of my neighbors have joined Kenwood over the last couple years. They like to golf and play tennis. A bit pricey for me, but it makes sense.
We're in a nice middle class (upper middle class?) neighborhood. So my friends are probably guilty of OP's accusations! |
| In our area, those who joined clubs are the classic striver types, always name dropping, always upgrading their cars and homes and vacations. I can’t think of anything I’d like to do less than join a club where all these people congregate. |
I doubt that there are many members at my club whose income is below seven figures. That is really what is needed to support a membership. Why? Because quite a number belong to more than one club, have a second home (some a third), and travel a fair amount. They are not upgrading things -- they just buy what they want. They also do not name drop. I have noticed a trend though. In the past you would see lawyers, doctors, execs, as members. In the DC area -- the big lobbyists as well. And of course their adult kids who held similar jobs. Over the last few years there are a lot more younger people joining with lots of family money. Some have high paaying jobs, while others have modest jobs but the common fact is that there is a lot of family generational money out there. |
Yes -- they have houses in private neighborhoods and belong to clubs. |
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People join a country club for golf and the pool. All this striver crap is so weird and reeks of upper middle class people thinking they are hot stuff because they spend their money differently than other upper middle class people.
If your country club is your entire social life, that's weird, and I think that's where this "striver" mindset comes in. Most normal people don't bring up their club in convo unless you're talking about golf. |
You don't hang out at regular country clubs then. Plenty of members in the 350-500k range at regular clubs. And yes they are all strivers. Lots of kitchen renovations and very few second homes. Tons of name dropping, and only being friends with "certain" families. |