How did your waspy old money ancestors show their thriftiness?

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Anonymous wrote:Weird of OP to start a thread asking about “your WASP ancestors”. Very few people are from WASP lineage nowadays…

Anyhow, a lot of these things people are talking is just about people dealing with poverty. We are much wealthier than our ancestors. We don’t need to live like England during the air raids


??? Huge swaths of the Southeastern US are nothing but WASPS. Even in the NE/Midwest there are plenty but you mix in more Irish/Italian Catholics.

No. White Southerners don’t count as WASP. They tend to be Southern Baptist Protestants and tend to be of Scots-Irish stock.
The true WASPS are from the Northeast, historically


Plenty of white southerners are Anglo Saxon, with ancestors from England descended from the three Germanic peoples the Anglos, The Saxons, and the Jutes. There are also tons of southerners who are not southern Baptist.

Geez. It sounds like you have never been to "the south" and know nothing about it so you are just promoting stereotypes. My WASPY grandparents would be horrified if you assumed they were Scottish, Irish, or - heaven forbid - BAPTIST.


And not to mention the scotch-Irish are called Ulster Scots in the UK, many of which who came to early colonial southern U.S. were second sons of aristocracy and were the beginning of what is “WASP” now. Ulster Scots were mostly Englishmen/Lowland Scots of Protestant landed gentry origin who participated in the highland clearances and the plantation of Ulster.

You can draw a straight geneological line from many/most “WASPy” families in the north and south to an unbroken chain of transfers of wealth/property that go back to at least then English civil wars, if not William the conqueror. The 3 epicenters of waspy-ness heritage are Virginia, Massachusetts, and New York (with New York developing this later). The Carolinas are on the bubble. Typically these families are of long lines of Episcopalians or Methodists (technically methodist episcopal). But Presbyterians aren’t uncommon, depending on where their ancestors fell on the questions of the English civil war and some may even be Baptist, though Baptists tended to be much more plentiful in lower class early immigrants, but many higher class British intermarried with higher class Baptists of lowland Europe and Rhineland Germany origins.


Oh, blah blah blah. I'm a descendant of president John Adams. He was a Congregationalist turned Unitarian. Both traditions were very common with Massachusetts WASPs at the dawn of our Republic.


I’m the PP… Congregationalists were basically the puritans and pilgrims. They’re also very closely related to Presbyterians. Basically depends on which part of the UK you came from and which of the many different factions in the English civil wars your ancestors were aligned with.

In fact while Virginia was mostly Episcopalian (and later Methodist), Massachusetts Bay Colony had a sizeable congregational population. As I said before, New York and the Carolinas were similar in their concentration of well-to-do European migrants. And later you can add Kentucky because of early westward expansion through the Cumberland Gap of, yet again, second sons of landed Virginia and Carolina gentry, largely of Scot’s Irish origins, but also English and now more German and low country Dutch/flemish starting to be added in.

In general, Presbyterians, Dutch Reformed, Congregationalists are all Calvinists. Though it’s complicated with the Presbyterians and the evolution of the church in Scotland from Anglicanism, which did sort of evolve a bit differently. Baptists are also Calvinist but have an even bigger asterisk than Presbyterians. There are shared Calvinist roots across all of these denominations but the faith traditions have all diverged quite a bit over centuries.

There were many smaller groups of Protestants who created other communities in the colonies: the Huguenots in Charleston, Quakers in Pennsylvania, Mennonites/Anabaptists, etc etc.

There is a reason there is a P in WASP - instead of an e for Episcopalians. In fact, it could be shortened to WP as the AS is redundant - pretty much all of the white Protestants had Anglo Saxon heritage by default and Protestantism basically only existed in the Anglo-Saxon countries of Northern Europe.

By pretty much any metric, Protestantism, across the denominations, had a strangle hold on political and economic power in the US/British colonies from the Pilgrims until it began to fade in the post-Vietnam era and today.

No matter the wealth, white Anglo Saxon Protestants aligned to support their kind and maintain dominance in American society.

For some, the term WASP has evolved in many circles to mean descendants of the gilded age industrialists of New York and Pennsylvania, or the descendants of the Boston Brahmins, or the Virginia gentlemen farmers, but its origins (which are relatively recent - like post WWII) it meant the entire category of people, who were White, Anglo-Saxon, and Protestant and thus likely had many generations in the U.S., which meant they were likely to be upper middle class or higher for several generations, with some level of accumulated wealth, etc. Laborers during this time tended to be Catholics from Ireland and other parts of Europe.

The Scots-Irish you think of now, of under developed Appalachia and Hillbilly elegy fame really developed as a uniquely poverty stricken segment during the depression and after WWII as the rest of the world began to modernize and they were left behind. Largely agrarian and few options to diversify and agriculture became less profitable. But many of these Scots Irish also “got out” by selling off or developing their land, starting businesses, sending their kids to colleges, etc. Though the Hillbilly Elegy Appalachians also had additional wrinkles related to the rise and fall of
Industry in the Ohio river valley…

The people who are still in this cycle of poverty could have very well descended from British nobility and the elite of early America but the choices of their ancestors in the last 100 years meant that they are still in the Hollow but other branches of their family trees could seem more like the DCUM ideal of WASP.


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I think the book "The Big House" by George Howe Colt does a great job of explaining the WASP thriftiness aesthetic among affluent people. The book is about a family's large oceanfront summer home that needs to be sold off. It's not a story of poverty, but rather a story of changing times. But in the background there are funny anecdotes about how the property and the family's lifestyle were thriftily managed.
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Buy value. Use things forever.
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My relative was a OG WASP. He worked for King Henry the VIII and converted in day one or loose his head.

King Henry had a royal ass wipe. They use rags they wash out after use to wipe his ass after taking a crap. Saved on toilet paper!
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Anonymous wrote:Were your families so frugal because they were living off investment returns/dividends/family allowances? Most people were frugal in the old days, but I assume your wasp ancestors were quite wealthy. Was it on paper only? Were they trying to hold on to fortunes from a bygone era? Or do you think that’s just how people were in that era and they were no different?


It was vulgar and tasteless to be wasteful, even if you were wealthy. Now, it’s some sort of weird flex to replace things that don’t need replacing just because you can.


This. Or replace things because they are “dated” or “look tired.”
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Are today’s wasps even thrifty? There’s so much conspicuous consumption across the board in DC.
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Anonymous wrote:Are today’s wasps even thrifty? There’s so much conspicuous consumption across the board in DC.


Not by white protestants.
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We had a roof that leaked. I remember when it rained having to put buckets and pans on the upstairs landing and on the stairs to catch the water.

We had a washer that we had to connect to the faucets using hose pipes. Never had a dryer either. We had something called a spin dryer that would rinse out the majority of the water out of the wet clothes before we either hung them in front of the fire on a clothes rack or hung them outside on the clothes lines to dry. My Mom said that the spin dryer was cheaper than a full dryer.

My parents also installed in me something that I still do to this day. Every time I leave a room, I switch off the light, even if I'm going back there in a few minutes. Saving on that light bill.
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Anonymous wrote:Are today’s wasps even thrifty? There’s so much conspicuous consumption across the board in DC.


Not by white protestants.


+1. At least not ones raised by thrifty wasps.
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Anonymous wrote:Weird of OP to start a thread asking about “your WASP ancestors”. Very few people are from WASP lineage nowadays…

Anyhow, a lot of these things people are talking is just about people dealing with poverty. We are much wealthier than our ancestors. We don’t need to live like England during the air raids


Some people of all economic classes are averse to waste. Finding waste a repellant behavior is not the same as poverty.
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Anonymous wrote:My relative was a OG WASP. He worked for King Henry the VIII and converted in day one or loose his head.

King Henry had a royal ass wipe. They use rags they wash out after use to wipe his ass after taking a crap. Saved on toilet paper!


They didn't have paper back then, much less toilet paper. They wrote their documents on parchment (dried skin).
The colonists here somehow used seashells to wipe. Later it became old newspapers.
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Seriously, there can only be one or two posting that are the definition of old school money. So unless the Rockefellers, Gettys, Vanderbilts or someone in that league, it’s silly to ask about wasps old white family money.
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Anonymous wrote:Weird of OP to start a thread asking about “your WASP ancestors”. Very few people are from WASP lineage nowadays…

Anyhow, a lot of these things people are talking is just about people dealing with poverty. We are much wealthier than our ancestors. We don’t need to live like England during the air raids


Some people of all economic classes are averse to waste. Finding waste a repellant behavior is not the same as poverty.


I get that…but a bunch of things people are referencing are things a downright poor person does. Using a washing machine where you have to hook up the pipes to the faucet is not something a truly wealthy WASP family does.

Yes…prior to AC, your 10,000 square foot home was built from stone to keep it cool…but it wasn’t built that way to save on Electricity bills for something that didn’t exist.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Weird of OP to start a thread asking about “your WASP ancestors”. Very few people are from WASP lineage nowadays…

Anyhow, a lot of these things people are talking is just about people dealing with poverty. We are much wealthier than our ancestors. We don’t need to live like England during the air raids


Some people of all economic classes are averse to waste. Finding waste a repellant behavior is not the same as poverty.


I get that…but a bunch of things people are referencing are things a downright poor person does. Using a washing machine where you have to hook up the pipes to the faucet is not something a truly wealthy WASP family does.

Yes…prior to AC, your 10,000 square foot home was built from stone to keep it cool…but it wasn’t built that way to save on Electricity bills for something that didn’t exist.


But you don’t replace a properly working appliance because it’s the wrong color. Or well-made drapes or quilts that are “outdated.”
Anonymous
We never had things like Tupperware or glass food containers. If we had leftovers, they would be put on a plate in the refrigerator. Not a lot of extra food anyway. I don't think my mom even used plastic wrap. I remember my brother-in-law obce gave my mom an electric can opener. It seemed embarrassing. We used old stuff and never replaced it if it still worked. This was the way with everything.
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