I’m In agreement with you but just so you are clear - this isn’t just applicable to Ivy - many of these high achieving kids are not even in at T30 or T40 schools. (They will still be fine but this is not an ivy obsession, it’s more than that) |
In our wealthy Arlington neighborhood where most kids go public, just about every house has at least one parent that is an Ivy alum. At the top local high schools which are fed from wealthy hoods- it’s not any different from the privates. They are all legacies or URMs. |
Same in AU Park (NW DC). My 1/2 block of 6 houses has 2 Harvard alum (met at Harvard law after Harvard undergrad), 2 Duke (met at Duke), Penn, Northwestern, Michigan x 4. (This is not us--we're products of second tier state schools). But you can't throw a stick without hitting a double Ivy household. Many of their kids will go to DCPS PK-12 (it's about 50/50 public/private). |
This is very true |
This sounds like Gonzaga |
[/b][b] but those well-to-do families in Arlington and AU Park who send their kids to public school ARE very different from the uber-wealthy families who send their kids to top privates. Those uber-wealthy families will get their kids into top colleges because they will be making 8-figure donations to the school where the kid gets admitted. They'll build the student center or a new wing of the library. It's a whole different game. Being a legacy isn't worth much in college admissions. It's worth a bit, but bringing an 8 figure donation or being the child of famous and powerful person is worth a lot more. So if your child is academically high achieving at a private school, but has classmates from uber-wealthy or powerful families, guess who gets the spot at the top college? Money and power will trump hard work and smarts. |