OP, it's like sports for kids who aren't into sports.
Same reason someone wants a good football or basketball program at a college, when it doesn't affect the major at all. |
I think you are missing quite a few things. Maybe the kid loves "that school’s art/theatre/music/dance programs" and want's to continue to participate in something that is meaningful to them in college. Maybe the kid was so good as an artist, performer, instrumentalist and that got him into a top 20 school where he can still perform and enjoy that activity while getting an excellent college degree. Maybe he wouldn't have had that opportunity without the arts. As for sports, I would argue the same. Some kids want to pursue their passion for sports and compete at whatever level they are capable. Some go to D! schools on full ride scholarships where grades alone would not have afforded them the opportunity of being admitted. Others go D3 (even if they had the grades to go to better schools} just to compete in a sport for which they have passion and love the competition. I don't have stats for those that were admitted to college on some type of arts programming and if they became "professional" in that field of work. However, I do know that fewer than 2 percent of NCAA student-athletes go on to be professional athletes. In reality, most student-athletes depend on academics to prepare them for life after college. Education is important. There are more than 460,000 NCAA student-athletes, and most of them will go "pro" in something other than sports. Finally, if your kid is passionate about something, you should encourage it. Maybe it's the arts, sports, academics - whatever. The kids are the ones pursuing a dream and they are the ones putting in all the hard work. You might find it strange. I don't! |
Sensible post. |
+1 I doubt my kid will be a star of stage and screen, but i hope he has access to performing in theater at his college, even though he'll probably major in molecular biology. For him in high school, theater is fun and uses a different part of his brain than science. In college, extracurriculars are great places to form friendships, more so than classes. Of course if he ends up at a school with a strong theater program and many kids serious about majoring in it, he likely won't end up in the elaborate productions for theater majors only – but hopefully there will be smaller spinoff student groups and comedy troupes and such. It's good to have a variety of interests and friends, in college and life beyond. |
+1000 My kid is a BME and CS major and is doing enough to be a dance minor---wouldn't have it any other way. the dance is what keeps them happy/balanced. |
There are student led dance companies at Duke, Stanford and UChicago that are big draws for those who were serious dancers and want to keep it in their lives even if they don’t major in it.
The 2 sisters from DC who formed Syncopated Ladies (tap group that perform to sold out audiences) are Ivy educated |
So you don't really value art or theater or music, etc. You say you do but actions speak loudly to indicate you don't....you don't think anyone should actually follow their passion, but should instead "focus on making a living". I know plenty of people who make a living in the arts. They are happy and thriving. They may not be wealthy but they are rich in life. And they all make a decent living and support themselves just like everyone else. Next, most people can focus on two or more things while at college. My own kid is BME and CS double major (at a T30), and almost minoring in dance as well (will have everything except the required "stage managing 2 shows" by graduation time). If they didn't have this creative outlet, they would be miserable. I'd much rather they spend a lot of their free time at dance and with dance friends than just hanging at frat parties (trust me that happens too, but not as much when you have 2 time consuming majors and a minor/time consuming hobby). Interestingly, over 75% of the dance majors/minors at their school are also STEM (Engineering/premed). People can enjoy one passion and also focus on another that is the degree they really want to use for a career. |
+100 People who are happy in life will excel at life. Simple fact |
That's the way to do it!! Double major is awesome. Gives your son something divert towards if the music doesn't pan out with the career he'd want. And your Daughter found a way to market/utliize her love of art. What more can you ask for? |
![]() |
Amherst |
Every engineering school we visited touted their version of fine arts programs, and they invest a lot of money in them. Why? Because, they all say, they recognize that students want and need to exercise both parts of the brain, and being involved in the arts makes them better engineers, better students, and develop into better people (EQ). This is from academics at engineering schools. |
Ahhh, the arts troll is back. Every few weeks this surfaces. Every time, those of us who make our living in the arts explain and validate the field as a vocation and enrichment. So, having done this dance numerous times, I have to think that this is a troll at this point. Or, just another ignorant person who likes to pass judgment on something they know nothing about. Please, give it a rest, Arts Troll. |
Setting aside the intrinsic value of the arts from a practical perspective, I learned way more about project management, administrative stuff like budgeting, and how to manage a team from student directing a play in college than I ever did in any internship or job I had before graduating.
The arts provide unparalleled opportunities to conceptualize a project and see it through from its inception to its completion, almost always working collaboratively with others. Artistic endeavors call upon and stretch ones imagination, creativity, problem solving, ability to make things work with limited resource, and critical thinking about how most effectively to convey the thought or intention underlying a piece to the audience or viewer. Those are highly valuable and practical skills. It must be sad and stunting to go through life with such a limited definition of education. |
To the woman who mentions her husband plays jazz piano and is a surgeon, why do you say “he’s not gay”? Who would think that? Are you saying that men who play piano are usually gay? Is that what you think other people think? I don’t know, as a mother of a gay son, I found that slightly offensive or at least just confused that you are using a weird stereotype. |