Okay. Feel free to come back to this post in 5-10 years when more research is out. It is the best of all available options but it may not be ideal for circumstances. Just like 6 months of paid leave for every parent to bond with their child would be the best situation but it is not ideal for all parents. |
Or maybe many women just can't produce enough milk, and those that insist that they can if they just tried hard enough have a baby starving fetish. |
Emily Oster is that you? |
She’s hardly the only one making these points. But really it’s the end of Roe that makes this sh*t truly indefensible now. Women’s bodies are not proxies for anyone’s crusades and policy preferences. |
The AAP statement says that doctors should support women who choose to breastfeed and that nursing to 2 is only advised when there is mutual desire to continue. In other words the complete opposite of the Roe decision. It’s weird that this has to be said, but it is actually not harmful for professional associations to support the choices of women. If you do not choose (or cannot choose) to make the choices that are being supported, that does not make that support a personal attack: the statement is simply not about you. |
It says much more than that. It is not “supporting the choices of women” when a professional organization uses bad evidence to make a recommendation about what wome do with their bodies. It is not supporting women to fail to include consideration of their effort and time and personal preferences in the recommendations. |
As someone who does actually do the things AAP is recommending (EBF for 6 months, continuing breastfeeding until 2 years, etc) but finds pumping a trial and always produces only just enough milk, please kindly shut the f up. If I didn’t have the kind of job where I could have extremely extended maternity leaves and WFH with privacy to pump ~4 hours every day, of course my kid would be on formula so they didn’t starve. Some people just don’t produce excessive amounts of milk. |
DP. You seem strangely personally offended about this. Just move along. Personally, although I never had an issue taking pumping breaks at my job, in retrospect there was a subconscious part telling me to start wrapping it up once my babies turned 1. Once I stopped pumping, my supply dropped off and they lost interest in morning/evening nursing sessions. Which was fine, but had I wanted to keep nursing longer I would have had to keep pumping at work to maintain my supply. There's no reason to not support working moms who want to keep going longer than 1 year. |
As someone whose personal preference was to nurse, I feel that my effort and time are better considered by this recommendation than they were without it. The government literally buys formula for low-income women through WIC. A statement of support for people who make the choice for breastfeeding isn’t taking anything away from you. Please do not begrudge support to someone else for something that you aren’t doing, they also deserve support. |
It’s not a “statement of support”. It’s a message that women should be breastfeeding for 2 years. for all the talk about “breastfeeding goals” it’s clear that AAP thinks all women should have the goal of BF for TWO YEARS. |
“If mutually desired by mother and child”. Did you miss the part where it says they only “think you should do this” insofar as you want it yourself? Do you take all of their recommendations this personally? Because I, for one, have totally let my 14MO watch Elmo while I shower without ever thinking their screen time recommendations did not take into account MY need for hygiene. Particularly if it’s a recommendation about something you yourself are not doing, this seems like a really extreme reaction. |