OP here - this is interesting, but tbh, kind of hijacking my original thread. Re-reading my original question, I can see where I was kind of vague and came off as way more anxious than I actually am. In fact, I posted it because I tend to be very hands-off, almost to a fault. I've allowed my DC to chart their own course. I'm mostly fine with that, but worry that I might be missing some info that would help DC. Anyway here is our situation: - DC makes good grades (mostly As) in intensified courses, no concern on grades. - DC is making all decisions about course work on their own, which I think is great, but I worry that it might not be well-informed choices, yet I'm not sure I'm clued in to the bigger picture enough to help. - DC is not involved in any extra curricular activities, which concerns me. - DC has a job lined up for the summer, and has a regular baby sitting job right now, both of which I'm really impressed with and encourage. Guess my Qs are really about extra curricular activities and how to think about curriculum choices. |
| This board gives me anxiety. I never realized how crazed parents were and thankful my son followed his interests that landed him at a top school. OP, you need to let your child follow their interests and then when it comes time to do their app, show how they explored those interests . Forget the strict schedule and the insane rigor …. Colleges want to see whose behind the grades. |
What strict schedule and insane rigor? LOL I'm letting DC do their own thing. Unfortunately, DC doesn't have any interests that translate into activities/does not join any clubs or organized activities, and that concerns me. Other than gently nudging, 'Hey what about all of those clubs at school, don't you think you should give one a try?' I've been hands off to the point that I'm just starting to get concerned my laissez-faire approach will someday be something I or DC regrets. |
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I'm not sure who "we" is here -- the PP who said their DD is going to take AP French in freshman year is coming from an immersion program, not the usual route for the majority of students.
In the immediate PP's post -- seems like a different poster with a boy and not a girl -- then sure, don't rush through and take AP French in 9th (that wouldn't ordinarily be the case unless he too has been in immersion?). There's no one formula, and there's really not a need to take 4 years of language -- but you should understand what certain colleges are looking for, and for which colleges it really doesn't matter, before making a final decision on that front. |