If your high schooler does not maintain a healthy sleep schedule and normal HS relationships, then I can definitely, 100%, say it’s not worth it. Even for HYPS. I don’t know people wear over-industriousness like a badge of honor. It’s not. Scarcity mindset and status obsession are ruining our adolescents lives. |
Agree but DCUM doesn’t want to hear it. Kids who have done well at school and tests and EC are not getting into some safeties and targets this year. |
+1 |
| those "average" kids are happy. That is what matters not the school you get to say your kid goes to. |
I see what you are saying. But, if they showed 0 interest (for the schools that track that, which if you think they are so likely, they probably do) and they did not do optional essays and other similar things-- can we call it yield protection? Yes, in the sense that the school probably does not think the kid is coming. But the school also maybe thinks the kid does not want to go there. That can also be true. And colleges certainly can and should pick the kids that are really into them. That's not quite, or only, yield protection. That's building a class that wants to be there. When a parent laments that a kid was rejected, we may "know" their scores, ECs, etc. are fantastic--- but we do not know the quality of the application itself. |
Or it's a way for some people to feel better when they don't get in. My 1580, 4.0UW DC has gotten in everywhere so far except for a reach ED Ivy and Hopkins. Got into Case Western, Carnegie Mellon, Northeastern EA, UMichigan EA, Pitt, Vermont, Macalester, Wisconsin, Penn State, OSU, Loyola, and Depaul. These are all schools DC really really liked so demonstrated interest. When there were supplemental essays, they put a lot of time into them. I think "yield protection" may exist a little bit but it's not the "you get thrown out if you're high stats." Rather "if you're high stats and you treat us like a safety don't count on us." And that is how it should be. |
THIS^is the truth. Especially the last part about effort. And the fact that the PP's DC applied to wide ranging schools from safeties to targets. Kudos. |
High stats kid should apply to a few Ivy+ reaches, but also mid-tier schools where they will woo him with a full ride scholarship. Sure, Northeastern and Tulane will probably yield protect your kid but their juice isn't worth the squeeze IMHO. High stats kids should feel fortunate because they will have SO MANY OPTIONS if they play their cards right. |
Perhaps those were really not safeties/targets. |
I know a kid a couple of years ago who got deferred/WLed (however they do it) in Michigan EA, which was hurting as he had gotten deferred at his ED1 and was only into one of the New England state schools. The mom was shocked. The son said to her, "Mom, I deserve it. I did NOTHING to demonstrate interest. Nothing. And they replied accordingly." One of the best admissions lines I've heard the last few years. |
Well, they were based on data from recent previous years. That’s the point. It’s also a wrong assumption that the kids didn’t show interest in the schools but it is a par for the course response to this problem on DCUM. |
| Average kids only have it easier if their parents have money, otherwise average means no merit aid and no shot at truly need blind schools. |
You did this the right way. Congratulations. |
Thanks. I might add that the one of the reasons DC really really liked all of these schools is because they recognize that very smart kids go to all kinds of schools, and the teaching/professors/opportunities are also are excellent at most. So they were able to focus on attributes other than rankings. Yes, the prestige of the Ivy League surely entered into the decision to apply ED to that school but they knew it was a long shot and are excited by the options they have. |
Congrats to your DC! Where would they choose out of the ones they've already been accepted to?? |