HHI for people who send kids to private

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Send them in middle or high school like we did and save some years of tuition payments like we did. We have twins that started private in 6th grade. $500 k HHI and pay $70 tuition for them.


Yes, we started in middle. Our "grrst: public schools only start to shit the bed in middle in high. Plus the small class sizes go a long way
Out private has a class all through middle school dedicated exclusively to forming good study and organization skills. I have one kid headed to Pinceton next year. Doubtful we'd have had the same result had we stayed with our public.


Sure bro
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We have two kids in a NYC private and make about $1.5m HHI combined with a nw of $8m. While we can afford it I maintain that it’s not a great value. The kids would be 100% fine in our local halfway decent public.


Appreciate you're admitting this!

The great value comes from the connections your children are going to have.

I'm from nyc as well...


Being surrounded by kids of a high SES and high involved and invested parents is absolutely beneficial.

However our main driver was the class sizes. My kids went from chaotic inclusion classes of 25-29 kids to differentiated classrooms with a maximum of 12 kids to 1 teacher. This year my sons Spanish class has 7 kids. The amount of attention my kids get and how much feedback they get on their work is incredible. It's impossible to slip through the cracks.

Our small private school sends more kids to Ivy league schools each year than the entire public school system we are mapped to. It also shows in our average SAT scores which are way higher than our local GS8 rated public even if you control for and pull out the FARMS and ELA kids.

Private school kids are no smarter, but the individualized learning and focused classes go a long way.


Again uiy must not live in dc because publics are wiping the floor with admits to IVY plus Stanford MIT
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:HHI $425K
We pay $50K for one high school kid
Grandparents pay $50K for the second high school kid.



That’s pathetic
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our HHI is $200k with one kid in private. We’ve had him there for 10 years, and our HHI was $150k when he started. Does it constrain us? Well yeah - if we weren’t paying $40k for tuition we would use it for a nicer house or nicer vacations. There is always a trade off, unless you are very wealthy. But we value the school more than we value a nice house or vacation, so that is how we spend our money. There are plenty of other people at our school whose incomes are near ours - two income families with a teacher and a pediatrician, or a nurse and a fed, etc. My kid knows we have more money than 99% of the world and 90% of the US, even if we do have less money than many of his classmates. It’s never been an issue.


Hey, are you me? Same in every respect except that we made 100K when we started, and our school is 30

We live very modestly, and our kid’s school is our big extravagance. Worth every penny.


A fool and his money are soon parted
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our HHI is $200k with one kid in private. We’ve had him there for 10 years, and our HHI was $150k when he started. Does it constrain us? Well yeah - if we weren’t paying $40k for tuition we would use it for a nicer house or nicer vacations. There is always a trade off, unless you are very wealthy. But we value the school more than we value a nice house or vacation, so that is how we spend our money. There are plenty of other people at our school whose incomes are near ours - two income families with a teacher and a pediatrician, or a nurse and a fed, etc. My kid knows we have more money than 99% of the world and 90% of the US, even if we do have less money than many of his classmates. It’s never been an issue.


Hey, are you me? Same in every respect except that we made 100K when we started, and our school is 30

We live very modestly, and our kid’s school is our big extravagance. Worth every penny.


A fool and his money are soon parted


bro, take a break, you seem super triggered.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our HHI is $200k with one kid in private. We’ve had him there for 10 years, and our HHI was $150k when he started. Does it constrain us? Well yeah - if we weren’t paying $40k for tuition we would use it for a nicer house or nicer vacations. There is always a trade off, unless you are very wealthy. But we value the school more than we value a nice house or vacation, so that is how we spend our money. There are plenty of other people at our school whose incomes are near ours - two income families with a teacher and a pediatrician, or a nurse and a fed, etc. My kid knows we have more money than 99% of the world and 90% of the US, even if we do have less money than many of his classmates. It’s never been an issue.


Hey, are you me? Same in every respect except that we made 100K when we started, and our school is 30

We live very modestly, and our kid’s school is our big extravagance. Worth every penny.


A fool and his money are soon parted


bro, take a break, you seem super triggered.


Excuse me sir but I have not posted on this thread before. I just think it's funny people on this site chastise people making 300k for buying an 80k car and then turn around and do dumb crap like spent 30k on a charlatan school when they're nearly making poverty wages
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our HHI is $200k with one kid in private. We’ve had him there for 10 years, and our HHI was $150k when he started. Does it constrain us? Well yeah - if we weren’t paying $40k for tuition we would use it for a nicer house or nicer vacations. There is always a trade off, unless you are very wealthy. But we value the school more than we value a nice house or vacation, so that is how we spend our money. There are plenty of other people at our school whose incomes are near ours - two income families with a teacher and a pediatrician, or a nurse and a fed, etc. My kid knows we have more money than 99% of the world and 90% of the US, even if we do have less money than many of his classmates. It’s never been an issue.


Hey, are you me? Same in every respect except that we made 100K when we started, and our school is 30

We live very modestly, and our kid’s school is our big extravagance. Worth every penny.


A fool and his money are soon parted


bro, take a break, you seem super triggered.


Excuse me sir but I have not posted on this thread before. I just think it's funny people on this site chastise people making 300k for buying an 80k car and then turn around and do dumb crap like spent 30k on a charlatan school when they're nearly making poverty wages


You just posted random insults like 6 times in a row. Take a deep breath, touch some grass.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our HHI is $200k with one kid in private. We’ve had him there for 10 years, and our HHI was $150k when he started. Does it constrain us? Well yeah - if we weren’t paying $40k for tuition we would use it for a nicer house or nicer vacations. There is always a trade off, unless you are very wealthy. But we value the school more than we value a nice house or vacation, so that is how we spend our money. There are plenty of other people at our school whose incomes are near ours - two income families with a teacher and a pediatrician, or a nurse and a fed, etc. My kid knows we have more money than 99% of the world and 90% of the US, even if we do have less money than many of his classmates. It’s never been an issue.


Hey, are you me? Same in every respect except that we made 100K when we started, and our school is 30

We live very modestly, and our kid’s school is our big extravagance. Worth every penny.


A fool and his money are soon parted


bro, take a break, you seem super triggered.


Excuse me sir but I have not posted on this thread before. I just think it's funny people on this site chastise people making 300k for buying an 80k car and then turn around and do dumb crap like spent 30k on a charlatan school when they're nearly making poverty wages


Ah, so you're just an a$$hole
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our HHI is $200k with one kid in private. We’ve had him there for 10 years, and our HHI was $150k when he started. Does it constrain us? Well yeah - if we weren’t paying $40k for tuition we would use it for a nicer house or nicer vacations. There is always a trade off, unless you are very wealthy. But we value the school more than we value a nice house or vacation, so that is how we spend our money. There are plenty of other people at our school whose incomes are near ours - two income families with a teacher and a pediatrician, or a nurse and a fed, etc. My kid knows we have more money than 99% of the world and 90% of the US, even if we do have less money than many of his classmates. It’s never been an issue.


Hey, are you me? Same in every respect except that we made 100K when we started, and our school is 30

We live very modestly, and our kid’s school is our big extravagance. Worth every penny.


A fool and his money are soon parted


bro, take a break, you seem super triggered.


Excuse me sir but I have not posted on this thread before. I just think it's funny people on this site chastise people making 300k for buying an 80k car and then turn around and do dumb crap like spent 30k on a charlatan school when they're nearly making poverty wages


Damn just chill
Anonymous
Public schools are mopping the floor with privates in the DC area
Anonymous
There is no income that would convince me to send kids to private school.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Public schools are mopping the floor with privates in the DC area


DC public schools? Mopping? Not sure what you mean.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At $300k, you’d be on the very low end. Plenty make $1m or more.


That’s not my experience. But a LOT of people have grandparents footing the bill.


Then their income is $300k + 4/3(40k*count(kids)) not $300k (since this income is not taxed, that's the 4/3).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Former private school teacher here --- a very good proportion of the kids have parents with "normal" jobs and grandparents paying the tuition. Of course you will find lots of wealthy people, as well, but this is a notable population, too.


Wow, that must be nice. We are sending money back to our FOB...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Former private school teacher here --- a very good proportion of the kids have parents with "normal" jobs and grandparents paying the tuition. Of course you will find lots of wealthy people, as well, but this is a notable population, too.


Wow, that must be nice. We are sending money back to our FOB...


You most not live in dc. Home of enablers
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