Haha nice try troll. I’m just fine with my son getting a B or two. He will still be just fine in life. If you read my other posts, you’ll know I said we also had a death in the family that term. You’re a piece of work PP. I’m sorry your kid is striving for all As and still has a POS mom. |
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My DD had the opposite problem. Being back in person, quarantining in and out here and there, no steady teachers, her most recent grades have really fallen compared to the last two years. I had a conference with her one steady teacher this term and she said she'd make sure the lack of stability is noted in her letters of recommendation. Thankfully, DD's test scores are high, so I'm hoping they'll see her capabilities over this one term.
But, again, we're noting her lack of steady teachers without making any apologies for it. |
| My A/B public school student is getting recruited by most of the Big schools in the area. My kid practices their sport and extra curricular 40+ hours a week and travels all over the country. I am quite fine with them getting Bs as I prefer a well rounded child. See you at a Big 3 PP where my kid will continue to get As and Bs and still go to a better college, for free. |
My kid was recruited too. Now gets Bs/Cs at the Big3, as do his recruited athlete friends. we're wondering if it was worth it. if college recruitment doesn't work out he's sort of screwed. just being honest. public school A/B students easily get B/Cs at the privates. It's been eye opening. |
My kid won’t get any Cs in private. I’ll make sure of it, even if it means scaling back on second sport. My kid is already getting “recruited” for college for their sport and is ranked. I have no qualms they will meet NCAA requirements. Good luck. |
How is your post relevant to OP's question other that to gloat about your child's athletic ability like a jerk? |
Post was directly to PP that implied Bs are unacceptable. Not everyone strives for 4.8 GPA. PP should be happy about that because otherwise her kid’s 4.0 wouldn’t matter much. |
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COVID was more difficult for some students than others. The key for admissions is explaining how whatever derailed them before won't derail them again. That can come up in a personal essay, or an interview, or both. 1. A death in the family or personal illness? Address the recovery and how the child dealt with it. Talk about current abilities, now that the acute time passed. 2. Undiagnosed mental health issues, or learning disability, or the like? Address that the diagnosis was made and what supports are now. Attach documentation that they are back on track and able to perform at the level they expect to bring to the next academic step. 3. Doesn't do well with distance learning? Given that we are still in an evolving pandemic, you need to show what adaptations were made and/or skills developed so this won't be an ongoing problem if the school/university/college to which the child is applying makes the decision to go virtual again, at least for awhile. Schools and universities don't want to penalize your child for something that is no longer a problem. They do, however, want a student body that thrives, including during future unforeseen chaos (especially during this pandemic). But if they turn your kid down, it's not "unfair" because it wasn't the child's fault -- this isn't about fairness. It's about performance and thriving. Show them (not just tell) why your child would thrive *now.* And if you can't, then it may not be a good spot for them, even if you think they abstractly deserve it. |
You sound like as much of an a-hole as others on this thread |
+1 |
| The concern is that the pandemic isn't over and schools are planning with this in mind. They aren't likely to take a risk on a kid who can can't or won't learn virtually when there may be more virtual learning to come. if they have 10 applicants per spot, why take the one who can only learn in person? it's a hard situation because it's not an isolated event that caused the low grades--it's an ongoing possibility. |
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When did mostly Bs become so terrible? At our rigorous private, Bs are respectable especially during COVID distance learning. It has been a rough ride for so many and so many had diminished learning growth.
I agree with PP who encouraged honesty about extenuating circumstances with death in family. Good luck OP. May your son find the best fit for him. There a some very good private schools in our area that do not have single digit admit rates and welcome different ability levels. |
Ok, we get it you are too cheap to pay for college. Its surprising a Big school would take a B student... that means the privates don't have smarter kids if your A/B public school child is getting in. Why makes you think our kids don't get all A's and still do sports and music? You realize they can do it all and still get A's. So, what happens if your kid doesn't go to school for free? Guess its McDonalds for them. |
Its a bit surprising a top private would take kids from public with B's. Nothing wrong with it, but those are not particularly good grades, especially when publics were so watered down in virtual last year. It was nearly impossible to get a B or C. |
Kid ended 7th grade with all As except one B in final grades. 8th grade term one 4 As, 2 Bs |