As a Black parent, I am completely flummoxed that you white parents are acting like you are so alone and isolated in these feelings. Pretty much all y'all feel this same way and it is clear. You talk about it in quiet whispers and think we don't hear you. We see all the eye rolls when this issue is raised at assemblies, meetings, chapels, etc. You're all clutching your pearls and so concerned. We know this is the topic of conversation when no one black or brown is in the room. We know you are doing everything you can to revert to the old ways, even with the Black Lives Matter sign in your front yard. This is exactly what is meant by the trite saying the road to hell is paved with good intentions. You think that your progressive views on the death penalty, women's rights, voting blue, support for climate change is enough. You are doing what is comfortable and easy as an upper middle class white American living in a city or suburb. Your support ends where things get uncomfortable. Your support ends where you are confronted with the difficult reality that this society was created, on the backs of others to benefit you and your kind, and you don't want to be forced to face that or have your kids face it because you know that by your own white, western belief system; once you admit and own this ugly truth, the only path forward is reparations and you and your kids potentially having a little bit less of the pie that you did not deserve in the first place. |
| How much to parents pay to send their kids to this bastion of SJ? |
| 5-8 tuition (all-inclusive of lunch, supplies, sports, music, trips outdoors) is $41,570 |
There are few people more annoying than a parent of a child attending a $40k+ private school in the Capital city of the most prosperous country that has ever existed who complains about historical injustices for which people of other races need to atone. I know it’s trendy to be a victim these days, but at a certain income and education level it gets a bit ridiculous. Maybe ALL of us who send our children to such schools (regardless of race) should have some gratitude that we are where we are in life and that we can provide for our children like we are, and we should teach our children to have gratitude as well and to be aware of people with less and to always be looking for ways to help them? And maybe it’s not a crazy idea for all of us to teach our children to judge people based on the content of their character, not on the color of their skin? |
was thinking the same. This was not written by a high schooler/recent high school grad.
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+1,000! It’s all about white folks not wanting to share while hoarding resources. |
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Why do Black families send their children to schools that perpetuate systemic racism?
Why do any families who believe in social justice send their kids to schools that cost $40k? |
| Sounds like you don’t know what systemic racism means. And what in the world does social justice have to do with the price of education? |
| Ha ha - are you for real? Do you think Sheridan parents or any private school parents pay 41k for their kids to get a social justice education? Be real- we pay because we think the public school choice is insufficient to either give our kids what they need or give them a leg up in this increasingly competitive world (and maybe for some that is both). If private school ed is better than public than we are reinforcing in the most intractable way the inequality gaps that these schools claim to want to fix. Our kids see right through this … some will care about our hypocrisy and others will do the same for our grandkids. Don’t get me wrong. I would much prefer a value based education for my kids and social justice fits the bill for my family. But … let’s be honest about it rather than patting ourselves on the back for being progressive warriors. |
I think the point is that there might not be much discussion and understanding of what the time and place was during the formation of this country and that our founding fathers were not perfect in today’s views but we should treat them with respect since we live with the freedoms their actions afford us. Also curriculum as it is written on a website isn’t always the way it is taught in real life. |
This post is one big non sequitur. Private vs. public and social justice have basically nothing to do with each other. Besides, where and how is social justice even being taught in the public schools? All I see on the news is angry parents railing against it at PTA and school board meetings by calling anything they don’t like “CRT.” |
Thank you. Very well said. 00:15, when you think you see eye rolls at chapels or assemblies, maybe keep in mind that every single person in that room -- including you and your child - is blessed beyond belief, and some of us think that it is important to teach all of our children to realize that. |
| One can see injustice in this country, and feel beyond blessed at the same time. They’re not remotely contradictory. |
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Training children to be activists in order to achieve specific predetermined goals is not the same thing as teaching children historic facts (some of which may not have been taught in the past) and how to think critically and analytically. |