We haven't had sex
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Anonymous
| F here, dating a guy for 1 yr. We have never had sex. We get close but it hasn't happen. There have been many opportunities for it to happen. I've been trying to find out why it hasn't happened. He recently told me that he's bisexual and struggling with his sexuality. He added to it that he is in love with me and sees a future with me. Wants a future with me. He's 35 yrs old. I'm 29 yrs old. What do I do? |
Anonymous
| You gently break up while he figures his stuff out. A year and no sex is telling. Are you intimate in ways that friends aren't? I am friends with lots of folks but only sexual with my spouse. If you just have a loving close friendship then have that- but you both derserve romantic love too. |
Anonymous
| He is Gay but wants to live as a straight man. Im sure he loves you but is not sexually attracted to you. |
Anonymous
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I agree he is probably gay. He wants a life with a wife and family and loved you but sexually he wants a man. I'd guess he is getting his needs filled there
He is embarrassed and would not be able to perform with you. I would be very honest with him if he already said he is bisexual. Be kind, tell him you you know he likes you but ask him if that's the issue and if you are understanding he will open up to you. |
Anonymous
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Who cares what his label is. The only important label you need is that he is A Guy Who Doesn't Want to Have Sex With You. And that's nothing against you, it's about him and his issues, whatever they may be.
Go out and find a guy you are sexually compatible with and get whatever freak you prefer ON! |
Anonymous
This. Sorry OP. |
Anonymous
x a million |