Without naming college names, the prospect of writing a $30,000 check for each of the next four or five years for a place that is pretty much open door for UMC students troubles me. Feels like parents are boxed in a corner even if our children haven't earned it. We're socially pressured to buy our underachieving kids the equivalent of a new sports car. Hey, nice work getting all those inflated B-pluses, here's a new Porsche 911 ($120,000), pal. There's no chance my son is equipped to handle a STEM, so whatever lightweight degree he ekes out from an already subpar university makes for pretty dim prospects, yes? What a crock. |
What a sad excuse for a Dad |
I think this is a time for americans to re-evaluate the value of college degree. There are tons of other professions where you can make money without college degree or with CC degree. |
Love my kids, just frustrated. I look around and don't work with anyone from these mediocre colleges. And the inability to pursue a STEM at a crappy school just exacerbates the already bleak outlook. |
I'm not paying for anything but top-tier private or in-state public. They can go to community college, and yes that won't give me any bragging rights, but times have changed. |
Sucks, bro. |
In-state school only, and I'll buy them a used car to drive back and forth so I don't have to chunk down an additional $12k per year to house them at a place that's a 20 minute drive away. |
Can't they go to community college, do well there and then transfer to a better college, thus saving you 2 years of inflated tuition? |
+1 Nobody's forcing you to send your kid to a specific college. |
how did they 'f- up'? If you work at an 'elite' job - where did it go wrong? Intelligence is half inherited. Do they have a dumb wife or are any of the grandparent(s) dumb? (regression to the mean)? |
They go to community college and transfer to another school. Or in state. If they do a fluffy major they need to minor in accounting or something marketable that they can get a job in right out of school. |
I don't think it's the wife that's dumb here. |
Them having a college degree is far more valuable than you having a Porsche |
Maybe college isn't the best path. Maybe something like a grade school would be a better fit. |
Like what??! College degree is necessary, sorry. OP, you only think A students should go to college?! |