
You are ridiculous if you think kids don’t have all of this (and more) in public school. My kids certainly do - and we’re not even in a W school. What I meant by “extras” is a peer group in the same socioeconomic class, individualized attention, no problem kids, that kind of stuff. But as far as class offerings and quality of education you’re not getting anything better than what you get in a public school. Like I said before, private parents will never admit this. |
I cannot believe that you believe that 95% of these students will struggle in college and only 250 will be ok. You’re telling yourself stories. |
Spectacular? Umm…no. Respectable? Sure. No need to overstate to make whatever point you’re trying to make. |
You can get an excellent education in public school and some kids do, on average the entire experience is much worse and the sheer volume of kids means you get little individual attention. You are also more likely to get assaulted in public school, as my kid experienced before we moved to private. Except for the 6 months when my public school was entirely virtual while the private schools held in person classes during Covid, my kids are physically safer in their private school. If you’re super rich but none of this is important to you that’s fine, but my values are different. |
My local public school offers exactly the same European history class as our private with the exact same textbook, I’m guessing both teachers are great. My kid is in a class of 15 students with a class trip overseas to experience the material, in our public school the class has 30 and some kids stand for the class time. Is this the same experience? Some public parents will never admit this. |
The exam scores say it all. My kid got a 5 on every single one of his AP exams--I think every kid in his APUSH and AP Euro class got 5s--there may have been 1 or 2 '4s'. This is a private. My kid did not 'study' much at all for the exams. The class was very well-prepared. |
I never said 95% would struggle. This is what I said verbatim: "Of course of the remaining 4350 students, there were some who will be just fine, but many many struggle due to poor preparation for college. |
No problem kids. That alone is worth the thousands of dollars to me!! But seriously, in addition to what you mention above, class size is a significant benefit to private school education. My HS daughter has classes that max out at 17 and are as small as 12. Nobody gets lost in the class and consequently, the class is able to move along at a good pace. Teachers give very detailed feedback on papers in English class. I looked at my daughter's papers that were returned, and her teacher had very insightful and thorough comments throughout her paper that are in some cases several sentences long. This is on a paper where she received an A. I know for a fact this doesn't happen in public schools on that scale. Also, if I send an email to the teacher for any reason, I get a response usually with a few hours...sometimes less. The longest I ever waited for a response from the school on any issue was 24 hours. |
Anyway, can we get back to talking about private school college admits? |
Absolutely no one is arguing that public school kids have the same experience as private school kids, but good try. |
Finally a private school parent admitting they are paying for the extras! Well cut me down and call me shorty! These extras are absolutely worth it to many people. And that’s 100% ok and a valid point. And I’ll never fault anyone for that. But anyone arguing about getting a better education at a private is just deluding themselves. |
I’m just wondering why the public school boosters constantly come on the private school board to try and argue that public school is just as good. Do you think the private school parents know nothing about their public schools and your comments are going to inform or convince them of something? I sent my kids to our local public schools for several years and I know what I’m spending a fortune getting my kids away from, what is the point of this conversation? |
The not getting assaulted part is an extra? Or the being in smaller classes part? Personally I think being in a smaller class while not getting assaulted is a better education but you delude yourself wherever you want to. |
That’s not all that private schools offer. However, I hope you understand that the aforementioned “extras” mean that most private schools offer a better educational experience than most public schools. |
EXPERIENCE. Offer a better educational EXPERIENCE. Not a better education. Just to be clear. |