Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

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[Post New]09/15/2016 18:24
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Anonymous
Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!
[Post New]09/15/2016 18:32
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Anonymous
Ha op something similar happened to me. We have a really fresh graduate who just started at work. I'm not a big shot per se but I kind of run things. I organized a lunch recently and while I was introducing the discussion subject, I caught his eye and the way he was looking at me was intense, lol! It threw me off for a second, and I guess I'm still not sure if that's just how he looks at women but for the moment I'm enjoying feeling attractive.
[Post New]09/15/2016 18:35
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Anonymous
Oh pp here. Getting a kick out of talking to him is all that's appropriate. Don't go down that slippery slope op.
[Post New]09/15/2016 18:42
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Anonymous
This thread feels like Groundhog Day. Bill Murray, is that you?
[Post New]09/15/2016 21:52
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Anonymous
This happens to me all the time. I just get a good chuckle out of it in private and act civil but professional with the person.
[Post New]09/16/2016 07:11
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Anonymous
Mention your husband every single time you see him. And your menstrual cramps.
[Post New]09/16/2016 07:16
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Anonymous
Fart and burp in front of him.
[Post New]09/16/2016 07:46
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Anonymous
Quickie in closet.
[Post New]09/16/2016 07:56
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Anonymous
OP - so no interaction, no flirting. Just him looking "dreamy"?

Um...

Are you sure this guy has a crush on you? Wishful thinking or just projecting?
[Post New]09/16/2016 09:36
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Anonymous

Flash your boobs. If he smiles, it's DEFINITELY a crush.
[Post New]09/16/2016 09:39
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!


By "social interaction" do you mean "sex?"
[Post New]09/16/2016 09:54
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Anonymous
Will this have legs like the mailman made up thread?
[Post New]09/16/2016 10:13
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!


Reverse the genders of the individuals involved, i.e., young female intern and older man. Don't do anything that if an older man did it, would make him a creep.
[Post New]09/16/2016 10:16
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!


By "social interaction" do you mean "sex?"


No that means string him along and enjoy the validation and attention without ever giving him sex.

See how much you can get the poor fool to do for you even though he's not getting any action! And he's always there "in reserve" in case your marriage gets boring.
[Post New]09/16/2016 11:57
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Anonymous
Op just take a little time to think of how fun it would be to be totally in control of the crush.
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