Is it ok to leave 8 year old home alone?

Anonymous
8yo son had a mild fever and I left him on the sofa reading a book while I dropped younger siblings off at school. He knows how to use the phone and I had my cell with me. Round trip took 10 minutes.
Anonymous
Yes, it's fine.
Anonymous
fine
Anonymous
Yes, it's fine.
Anonymous
Fine, depending on the eight year old.
Anonymous
Fine, especially when sick - he's less likely to suddenly find the energy to do something stupid.
Anonymous
Yes, totally okay.
Anonymous
OP here. Son is very well behaved. Doesn't do crazy impulsive things. My husband is worried that some busy-body will report to CPS that we left him alone and all hell will break loose.
Anonymous
We leave our 7 year old for short errands like this. It's actually legal in DC, I think, where there isn't a fixed age for being alone.
Anonymous
Yes I have a 7 & 9 year old and I've left them alone for up to an hour, we've worked up to it over time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Son is very well behaved. Doesn't do crazy impulsive things. My husband is worried that some busy-body will report to CPS that we left him alone and all hell will break loose.


How would they even know?
Anonymous
Yes, we have for over a year now when my DH runs me to the Metro quickly in the morning.

I also let him walk to our neighborhood park with his younger sibling (4 streets over) to play. I am trying to give him some opportunities now to go do stuff. He is going to be in MS soon!
Anonymous
I would NOT, not worth the risk.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would NOT, not worth the risk.


What's the risk and at what age will you be ok leaving your child home alone?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Son is very well behaved. Doesn't do crazy impulsive things. My husband is worried that some busy-body will report to CPS that we left him alone and all hell will break loose.


How would they even know?


OP here. Husband worries that DS will tell one of his friends and his/her uptight parents might report us.
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