Both parents at back to school night?

Anonymous
Do you arrange for a sitter for back to school night so both parents can go? Or does one go and report back?
Anonymous
For K, yes. This year I'll go alone.
Anonymous
no.
One parent max.
Last year I didn't even go (three kids----grades k, 4, 5) and amazingly I didn't miss anything. It's the same song and dance every year.
Anonymous
K and first, we both went. 2nd - I went alone. Third, I'm going to skip it, especially since I met the teacher at the open house. It really is identical each year.
Anonymous
Yes. It's the only event my husband will attend.
Anonymous
Op here--I can't lock down a sitter so it's the first time only one of us will go. Same song and dance, right? I won't miss too much?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Op here--I can't lock down a sitter so it's the first time only one of us will go. Same song and dance, right? I won't miss too much?


Better to ask the one of you who goes, right?
Anonymous
Can one go alone if one is a single parent?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Can one go alone if one is a single parent?


Yes
Anonymous
I have one in n Arlington. I can pretty much picture it in advance. And I just threw up a little.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I have one in n Arlington. I can pretty much picture it in advance. And I just threw up a little.


Why?
Anonymous
Generally one parent goes to back to school night. This must be your first child or your only child, or your child is in K.

Have the parent go that will be 1. Communicating with the teacher and other parents this school year. 2. Volunteer at school or field trips.
Anonymous
At our school, both parents usually go. And, yes, when the kids were young, we got a sitter. In high school, if you have more than one kid, it is necessary to split up --I don't know what people do if they have more than two.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Can one go alone if one is a single parent?


Yes, a plus one is not a requirement. One should arrange child care though.
Anonymous
We have two children in the same school this year and still only planned on one of us attending. Teachers will go through presentations twice. I thought about skipping this year since DH is out of town but our youngest is in K so I have a sitter coming.
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