Any tips for enjoying week long trip with long distance dh?

[Anonymous]

My husband will be here in a few days. I miss him immensely! I want to get the most out of this trip . We have a 6 month old . Husband will move back here in May of next year. He's doing a post doc in our home country. I'm leaning toward doing lots of take out and staying home. I have a great daycare provider and she's available in the evenings / weekends. Any tips ? I just want to spend every second cuddling with him . I miss him so much!!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you have a good plan op. Have fun!

[Anonymous]

Seduce him in every turn, subtle teasing seduction.

Every year for Father's Day my wife makes me a "coupon book" of "intimate/sexual" activities. Some are things she knows we both enjoy, some are reenactments of special moments from our past, some are ideas/fantasies I have shared with her over the past year. There are usual 10 coupons for each activity. She usually chooses 37 activities that way there is a coupon for each day and a couple of extras. We don't always go through them are but the thought and temptation keep te spark going.

Maybe you could make a coupon for each day he is home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seduce him in every turn, subtle teasing seduction.

Every year for Father's Day my wife makes me a "coupon book" of "intimate/sexual" activities. Some are things she knows we both enjoy, some are reenactments of special moments from our past, some are ideas/fantasies I have shared with her over the past year. There are usual 10 coupons for each activity. She usually chooses 37 activities that way there is a coupon for each day and a couple of extras. We don't always go through them are but the thought and temptation keep te spark going.

Maybe you could make a coupon for each day he is home.

Haha thanks!

[Anonymous]

Sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex.

+1000. Really not that complicated. And BJs.

[Anonymous]

I would refrain about having any serious discussions about issues you think might cause stress or argument. They can be tempting to talk in person about things that are important, but you have to weigh that against the possibility of having a fight ruin part of your time together.

Luxuriate in doing the day-to-day stuff together, like taking the baby for a stroll or going for ice cream or out to dinner.

[Anonymous]

Uh, spend time with his kid.

[Anonymous]

Don't put the baby in daycare the whole time! Make sure dh gets some time to snuggle and bond with his child. You can try to set him up for success. what time of day is baby in the best mood? Make sure DH gets to enjoy that time as much as possible. Let DH do special things like giving baby his first taste of ice cream, going to a fun outing as a family, having some new toys that baby will like for DH to play with him.

Couple time is important but both DH and baby will benefit from bonding during this visit.

[Anonymous]

1. Sex

2. Family/Baby bonding time

3. Sex

4. Avoid serious conversations that will lead to fights and hurt feelings.

5. Sex

Throw in some of his favorite meals and more sex and you're golden.

Also were did you find a 24/7 daycare aren't you worried she'll get burnt out?

Enjoy the visit ! May will be here sooner than you think!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Sex

2. Family/Baby bonding time

3. Sex

4. Avoid serious conversations that will lead to fights and hurt feelings.

5. Sex

Throw in some of his favorite meals and more sex and you're golden.

Also were did you find a 24/7 daycare aren't you worried she'll get burnt out?

Enjoy the visit ! May will be here sooner than you think!

It's not a 24 hour daycare. She babysits on her off hours occasionally.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Uh, spend time with his kid.

Yeah, it might be nice to go out for a date night, so a sitter might come in handy, but when DH and I had a 6-month-old, the baby had an early enough bedtime that we could have lots of time to ourselves in the evening. You can certainly get lots of cuddling time then!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Uh, spend time with his kid.

Yeah, it might be nice to go out for a date night, so a sitter might come in handy, but when DH and I had a 6-month-old, the baby had an early enough bedtime that we could have lots of time to ourselves in the evening. You can certainly get lots of cuddling time then!

Op here: my 6 month old sleeps at midnight every night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seduce him in every turn, subtle teasing seduction.

Every year for Father's Day my wife makes me a "coupon book" of "intimate/sexual" activities. Some are things she knows we both enjoy, some are reenactments of special moments from our past, some are ideas/fantasies I have shared with her over the past year. There are usual 10 coupons for each activity. She usually chooses 37 activities that way there is a coupon for each day and a couple of extras. We don't always go through them are but the thought and temptation keep te spark going.

Maybe you could make a coupon for each day he is home.

I have to come back to this one - your wife not only gives you a sexual act to your pleasing every day of the year but they're also all focused on your selection / preferences / mood etc?!? Never you seducing her or getting creative for her benefit? That seems insane to me but more power to you both if that works for you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Uh, spend time with his kid.

Yeah, it might be nice to go out for a date night, so a sitter might come in handy, but when DH and I had a 6-month-old, the baby had an early enough bedtime that we could have lots of time to ourselves in the evening. You can certainly get lots of cuddling time then!

Op here: my 6 month old sleeps at midnight every night.

I'm sorry, but that is not healthy for the baby. He/she should be in bed around 6:00-6:30 each evening. Why is your baby up so late?