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All the science and human behavior throughout history shows were are genetically predisposed to cheat. So, why do we make sexual fidelity the Holy Grail? Is it really the big dealbreaker everyone makes it out to be? And if so, ,why?
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Men made up the idea of monogamy and marriage so that they could be assured of reproductive success/ knowing who the child was.
In a world without monogamy, most women slept with multiple men (this is why men's privates are shaped as they are- I wont go into it because it would turn it into explicit but you can google this if curious) and whoever had the "fittest" gene would be the one that successfully implanted and had the child. Also, many men didn't get sex at all- it was really the top guys sleeping with most of the women. Anyway, this meant that about 80% of women reproduced and only about 40% of men. You can see why they wanted to implement marriage. I for one am thrilled that the marriage system is coming to an end and fully intend to have a child on my own. Patriarchy is finally starting to be dismantled and it's about damn time! |
It is? Thats news. So I guess it will be any day now and homosexuals will be dropping the issue? |
| Interesting about economically dependent spouses and cheating. |
| We're genetically predisposed to get fat. It doesn't mean it's good for us. |
Really? You think every "homosexual" is desperate to get married? As a lesbian I can only laugh at what a naive view you have |
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patriarchy coming to end ?
What is best for the kids ? |
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In ancient times, polygamist systems ruled. One powerful man had many wives. Lower class men were locked out of the system, had short, miserable lives, and relied on opportunistic rape for reproduction, if they reproduced at all.
This is the system that feminists want to return to? |
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Seems as if some people will go to great lengths to justify their infidelity.
There is something called “self-control” that many on DCUM can learn to practice. |
No. I'll take egalitarian leaning matriarchy, please. Males are generally horrible. Let the moms run the world. |
As a woman, this website proves that if women ruled tbe world, we'd just rip each other apart limb by limb. Nasty nasty creatures. |
I agree with most of this. Especially before more liberated attitudes began taking hold, you could see how marriage worked well for ugly men. |
But at least some of the moms will want to reproduce with alpha males. And jealousies and rivalries will ensue. |
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...and so are women who think this way. Our poor sons. |