What to wear to welcome party at lower school Head home?

[Anonymous]

Is business casual ok or should I dress fancier? Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the day, time, and wording of the invitation.

[Anonymous]

a tiny skirt

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Depends on the day, time, and wording of the invitation.

Agree with this. If it's in the evening on a weekday, some people will be coming straight from work so will be wearing their work clothes. In any case, if it's in the evening, I expect some men will wear a blazer and a few probably will just wear nice slacks and a long-sleeve shirt (dressy business casual). No jeans; no sneakers; no t-shirts or polo shirts. Same for women - no need to wear a dress or skirt but some will be.

[Anonymous]

What school?

[Anonymous]

I wore black pants w/ heels and a silk blouse when I went. I figured that covered me regardless. People had on everything from dresses to jeans, but most were in what I would call business attire.

[Anonymous]

Some of the most talented (and wealthiest) parents I've met at school functions have dressed how they felt. A locally and nationally famous chef came dressed in a rugby shirt and jeans. I think it's all about how you feel comfortable, which I why I find it astounding that some folks here are giving dressing tips. Do you really think that the LS head and his invited school staff you are going to judge you if you show up dressed casually and comfortably? They'd probably silently applaud you.

I'm an independent school teacher and parent to children at two separate independent schools - I'll just say that, presenting as a parent, being honest and comfortable with yourself goes a long way. I think that we're evolving past the dark ages of business attire only. However, if that makes you feel most comfortable - go for it.

[Anonymous]

I don't care what anyone says. This is the dumbest, most absurd post ever. If you are a troll, hat tip to you.

[Anonymous]

what kind of party is it?

is it a hookers and priests party?

or

wear a raincoat but arrive and everyone is naked type party?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of the most talented (and wealthiest) parents I've met at school functions have dressed how they felt. A locally and nationally famous chef came dressed in a rugby shirt and jeans. I think it's all about how you feel comfortable, which I why I find it astounding that some folks here are giving dressing tips. Do you really think that the LS head and his invited school staff you are going to judge you if you show up dressed casually and comfortably? They'd probably silently applaud you.

I'm an independent school teacher and parent to children at two separate independent schools - I'll just say that, presenting as a parent, being honest and comfortable with yourself goes a long way. I think that we're evolving past the dark ages of business attire only. However, if that makes you feel most comfortable - go for it.

Was this Jose Andres?

[Anonymous]

If your hot, something sexy.

[Anonymous]

Blk pants, blouse and medium height pumps with open tie, small handbag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of the most talented (and wealthiest) parents I've met at school functions have dressed how they felt. A locally and nationally famous chef came dressed in a rugby shirt and jeans. I think it's all about how you feel comfortable, which I why I find it astounding that some folks here are giving dressing tips. Do you really think that the LS head and his invited school staff you are going to judge you if you show up dressed casually and comfortably? They'd probably silently applaud you.

I'm an independent school teacher and parent to children at two separate independent schools - I'll just say that, presenting as a parent, being honest and comfortable with yourself goes a long way. I think that we're evolving past the dark ages of business attire only. However, if that makes you feel most comfortable - go for it.

Fact is, if you feel more comfortable in a situation because your attire is appropriate -- not over- nor under-dressed -- then you're going to be happier and present yourself better. I expect most people who have never been to such an event will over-think it and over-dress. Some will think this concept of worry about what to wear is ridiculous or the sign of an insecure person or a country bumpkin. Be that as it may, it's the truth for some number of the people who are first-timers to such an event. Let them be (and good for them for asking about it).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Blk pants, blouse and medium height pumps with open tie, small handbag.

Sorry its no longer 1983

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't care what anyone says. This is the dumbest, most absurd post ever. If you are a troll, hat tip to you.

Sorry you feel that way. 0P here. It's a legitimate question because I don't want to feel out of place. If you don't like I asked this question get off this thread.