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Anonymous wrote:Lots of talk about Q3's here. But if you look at the state requirements to start school DC and Virginia are turns 5 by Sept 30 and DC Sept. 1. All of these would lean to 9/1 (Q4) not 8/1.
Minimum age requirements, not maximum. You are extrapolating the max is one year from min date, but parents are not required to send their 4-year olds to kindergarten just because they met the minimum.
Sure but isn't that the definition of holding your child back, sometimes with good reason based on maturity and other factors. What other metric is better?
Don't argue with repeater parents
Just ignore them like always.
Sorry for your loss.
Stop embarrassing yourself
Sore losing is embarrassing. Sincerely sorry for your loss.
I think you’re reading too much into people’s intentions. I am sure there are some people genuinely not happy with the change, but the fact you see it as winning and losing is an awful reflection on you. I’d bet a cheeseburger that your kid looks at you when they play don’t they?
Not even close.
Agree, leave the kids out of it. They are not cheaters and they are not repeaters. They are kids playing soccer mostly told where to play by the leagues, teams, coaches and parents.
Heck, you shouldn't even be angry at parents that want to stand up for their kids. They don't set the rules.
All anger of birth year going to school year should be directed at youth soccer officials calling the shots, that's it.
All the moronic cheap shots at trapped not existing, cheaters, etc. is pathetic.
When you read all the anger directed at people supporting school year from people disagreeing with the change, all you can see is sore losing.
You make my point. You’re assuming anger instead of opinion.
First, I’ve never seen anyone say playing down is cheating. Nor have I seen anyone say advocating for change that is personally beneficial is cheating. Not sure where you saw that in this thread. Maybe it’s there…there are a lot of posts…but it hasn’t been a common one.
Second, the trapped player phenomenon is definately debatable. If there was some data that Q3/Q4 ECNL players were recruited less often, maybe it would have legs. But that has not been the case with the trapped debate, it’s all about their team graduating earlier, and the trapped player being a step-kid on a team. If the “proof” of recruiting impact is opinion, like “my daughter was destined for UNC, but now she is playing for JMU if not for her being trapped,” I’d tend to put that in the opinion not facts basket. The 8th grade trap does not exist, that’s not debatable. The 8th grade “trap is a weird FOMO thing…the kid isn’t missing high level play, they’re missing “fun time” with HS soccer - the equivalent of off-season indoor with friends. To take a subject that is debatable and assume that people’s opinions are anger directed at you is bit..extra?
Definately been some nastiness and ugly ego (on their children’s behalf) in this thread. And plenty of dumbdumbs thinking the age cut-off makes or breaks their kids soccer future. But anger at other kids or groups of kids I don’t think is common in this thread.
My 2 cents? You need to take a break from this thread if you’re taking everything as a personal attack.