Do you ever fantasize about someone

Anonymous
other than your spouse? Is it usually some random person, an ex, or what?

I think I must have a much higher libido than my DH. I had a dream about an ex last night and actually woke up feeling guilty.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:other than your spouse? Is it usually some random person, an ex, or what?

I think I must have a much higher libido than my DH. I had a dream about an ex last night and actually woke up feeling guilty.


what happened in your dream? details please...
Anonymous
For me, its usually an ex that I had a lot of chemistry with or the Bachelor. Lol.
Anonymous
Yes I fantasize about other men but it's always fictional characters. It's how I rationalize it to myself that it's ok to do.
Anonymous
This is absolutely normal and what keep your sexual relationship happy and healthy. Do not feel guilty because of your thoughts.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:other than your spouse? Is it usually some random person, an ex, or what?

I think I must have a much higher libido than my DH. I had a dream about an ex last night and actually woke up feeling guilty.


what happened in your dream? details please...


I would but I don't want my thread getting moved to explicit. I'll just say it was EXPLICIT!
Anonymous
Yes, he is like that guy in the commercial driving the motorcycle covered in $100 bills. I'm the girl that get's on the back of his bike with $100's flying everywhere. Couldn't see his face, my kind of guy...
Anonymous
That's why it's called a fantasy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is absolutely normal and what keep your sexual relationship happy and healthy. Do not feel guilty because of your thoughts.


+1 I do this all the time. My DW is the recipient of all that lust.
Anonymous

Of course. Usually real people - thank goodness they don't know!

Anonymous
You could fill stadiums with the women I've fantasized about. Friends, neighbors, people on the street, pictures on the Internet, random images conjured up by my fevered brain.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You could fill stadiums with the women I've fantasized about. Friends, neighbors, people on the street, pictures on the Internet, random images conjured up by my fevered brain.


Yup
Anonymous
Ah, yeah. Hot neighbor, hot guys on the military base where my husband works, hot husbands of my friends/our couple friends, hot waiters...

Don't all married people fantasize about having sex with pretty much everyone except their spouses?
Anonymous
My favorite ex, the PTA guy, the contractor we used 5 years ago. . .

NBD. Completely faithful. Can't stop what happens in my dreams.
Anonymous
Yes, the Italian coworker that I met in Vegas. Maybe a few others occasionally. Its mostly harmless.
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