Rushed into relationship now having doubts

[Anonymous]

So I've been seeing this guy for only a month. He asked me to be his girlfriend on the second date. I really like him so I said yes. The problem is our schedules are opposite and I'm a student so I didn't realize how little time I have for a relationship. I don't think I want to be in one at this time. I forgot how time consuming it can be. How do I tell him this?

[Anonymous]

Just tell him exactly what you wrote here. No problem.

[Anonymous]

So you went into the dating scene knowing you are in school and that will cut into your time spending with someone?

[Anonymous]

I think he rushed the relationship thus pressuring you to give him an answer immediately.

A 2nd date is much too soon to expect commitment from someone.

You're absolutely correct OP.....Relationships are a huge effort to maintain as well as a time suck.

You shouldn't have to sacrifice your future goals for a relationship that was created on the whim.

Talk to your boyfriend and let him know you are not ready to commit yourself to him yet. Tell him your plate is just too full now and it would be unfair to be someone's girlfriend when you acknowledge you really cannot invest what is needed to maintain a romantic relationship.

If this guy is worth his weight in gold, he should understand your dilemma and accept what you had to say.

Tell him you guys can still date & have fun together.