I suddenly feel weird about my brother-in-l aw.

[Anonymous]

My bro-in-aw was awesome. He has been with my sister for many years. Never had an issue until this weekend. My sister passed out early and my bro and O were drinking ( with other people). I think of his as a brother. They passed out and it was him and me. I noticed he kept feeing on his crotch but it could be an itch. He started massaging me when I was drinking. We sat down and he goes " why not sit by me" I said " I'm ok". He said " I want to rub you". He then got up and rubbed my shoulders. I get so weird and made an excuse to eave. I am 25. Sitting in a locked room kind old grossed and freaked out. I don't know if he is hitting on me but it seems like it. I don't know what to do.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like too much alcohol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like too much alcohol.

I just fee so weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like too much alcohol.

I just fee so weird.

Weird things happen when alcohol is involved. Forget about it and move on. Nothing else you can do. Don't blame yourself if that's the problem.

I have a BIL who gets a bit too amorous with alcohol. It's harmless. Wouldn't want to be married to him, but each to their own.

[Anonymous]

See how he acts today. Pretend it never happened.

[Anonymous]

You should feel weird. This is gross. Yes, ignore it,Ines it happens again. Don't put yourself in that situation (alone drinking) with him again.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that is gross. I would not drink around him in the future.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he shouldn't drink so much. He sounds immature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My bro-in-aw was awesome. He has been with my sister for many years. Never had an issue until this weekend. My sister passed out early and my bro and O were drinking ( with other people). I think of his as a brother. They passed out and it was him and me. I noticed he kept feeing on his crotch but it could be an itch. He started massaging me when I was drinking. We sat down and he goes " why not sit by me" I said " I'm ok". He said " I want to rub you". He then got up and rubbed my shoulders. I get so weird and made an excuse to eave. I am 25. Sitting in a locked room kind old grossed and freaked out. I don't know if he is hitting on me but it seems like it. I don't know what to do.

DC Urban style.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, bc your BIL was being disgusting and making a pass at you. A bad one. "I wasn't too rub you???" Gross.

Do NOT be alone with him ever. Document this and if it happens again tell your sister.

Yuck.

[Anonymous]

I usually hit on my SIL when have all been drinking, usually she responds. If given the opportunity, I'd definitely go as far as he wanted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My bro-in-aw was awesome. He has been with my sister for many years. Never had an issue until this weekend. My sister passed out early and my bro and O were drinking ( with other people). I think of his as a brother. They passed out and it was him and me. I noticed he kept feeing on his crotch but it could be an itch. He started massaging me when I was drinking. We sat down and he goes " why not sit by me" I said " I'm ok". He said " I want to rub you". He then got up and rubbed my shoulders. I get so weird and made an excuse to eave. I am 25. Sitting in a locked room kind old grossed and freaked out. I don't know if he is hitting on me but it seems like it. I don't know what to do.

DC Urban style.

yes

[Anonymous]

You're 25, not 15. When it gets down to the two of you, get out of there and go to bed. Not your "fault" (blah blah blah) but know enough to not put yourself in this position.

[Anonymous]

This happened to two sisters I know.
Sister 1 - the eldest - got married at a very young age.
Sister 2 - the youngest - is very very pretty. Sister 1's husband hit on her. Totally gross.

Sister 2 told Sister 1. Sister 1 appreciated the info and divorced her lame ass husband.

The sisters now live together and are generally enjoying the single life. If anything, it brought them closer together. I know that initially there was some resentment. But they worked through it.

Good luck, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're 25, not 15. When it gets down to the two of you, get out of there and go to bed. Not your "fault" (blah blah blah) but know enough to not put yourself in this position.

I have never seen this side of him at all. I was very surprised.