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I'm not religious, but I think that in a pluralistic society, it all depends on the context. There are plenty of contexts where it would be insulting to tell believers "the basis of everything you believe is false." Nearly all of us (even most atheists) live under a set of beliefs that is more nuanced than the law of the jungle, and if pressed the answer why is some version of "because I like it that way" ... so all of us can show some humility about the 'worldviews' of others. But I also agree w/ the previous posters that in a debate about comparative religions (for example), believers shouldn't be able to shut down debate by claiming offense ... and should just roll with it or disengage ... especially on the internet where, as far as I can tell, no one ever changes their mind in response to any reasoned argument (in one direction or the other). In those contexts, the non-believers should be allowed some civil way to make the point that "you are the one asserting supernatural things" without the believers quibbling endlessly over language and insults etc. If it isn't a reference to "myth," perhaps there's some other turn of phrase that gives less offense? |
Funny to see you here, grousing and insulting atheists.
It's only bad when someone else does it. |
You can't deny that you grouse and insult all afternoon. Some of you are actually proud of using the word "myth" because you think it accomplishes something (instead of driving people further into their corners). How do you like your coffee? |
The only thing that defining "myth" accomplishes is defining myth. I honestly DGAF what you believe. I just detest falsehoods and failures of logic. I'm just about to start another movie with my sick kid in a hotel room on a rainy day so I'll probably be here until dinner.
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I agree. I think there have been a lot of thoughtful replies to this thread that all boil down to the fact that context makes all the difference to whether or not something is offensive. Yes, you have the right to say whatever you want and even more so to believe whatever you want. But people are not necessarily trying to silence you when they point out that your words might be hurtful or harmful. And on the flipside, taking offense to something because you don't like some of the people on the other side is not helpful; not everyone is a troll. |
So can I say any of these here: - your religion is a myth - your religion is like Santa Claus or fairies - atheists are immoral - atheists will rot in he!! I like my coffee with cream. Currently at work but texting with DD |
Well, see, your context and tone imply that you are not engaging in thoughtful discussion of religion and/or atheism, but just looking to stir the pot. Thank you for providing such a clear example. |
DP. PP was clearly hyper-provocative, but as an atheist I don't get offended if any believer types that "atheists are immoral" or "atheists will rot in he!!" because I know that they sincerely believe that. But I don't believe that. So why would I get offended? I would prefer, as you state, "engaging in thoughtful discussion of religion and/or atheism". I am willing to change my position if shown sufficient evidence. |
No, I provided two examples on each side (atheist and believing) to try to get at what you think should be tolerated here. Still waiting for an answer. Meanwhile you miss the irony that you’re only offended by the insults against atheists. |
I don't think it's insulting to make those statements in a conversation like the one we're having (essentially, a "what are the boundaries?" conversation). In many other conversations, I'd suspect you were trying to derail or blow up the conversation. |
DP - all should be tolerated. And by "tolerated" I mean not deleted. I am free to be offended if I choose and I am free to not respond or engage as I wish. But that should not abridge another person's right to state their beliefs. That's how I think it should be. |
PP with the questions here. That’s my take too—this is a boundaries conversation, but used in another context these are trolling or flame-throwing. |
I thought I was clear in my response: I don't see any of your examples from either side as thoughtful or discussion-based. Your initial comment lacks context, which I've already said is important. And your tone, what with the reference to coffee that was part of someone else's back-and-forth snippiness above, did not imply that you were asking a sincere question. I have found it equally inappropriate on this forum to see someone compare God to Santa and to call atheists immoral. I'll add that there were some posters in the Santa-God debate who genuinely seemed to want to know why it's a bad analogy, so it's not necessarily without merit to ask, in the same way that non-Christians have asked non-combatively for an explanation of the Trinity. I could envision a conversation (yes, even in the hellscape of the internet) in which myth and religion were discussed civilly. I could envision (admittedly with a bit more difficulty) a conversation about secular vs. religious morality that didn't have to devolve into name-calling. As for your comment about irony and my being personally offended, I didn't indicate one way or another which of your examples I may or may not find offensive myself. I should point out, though, that I'm not atheist, nor Christian. The world is not a dichotomy between those two things. |
That’s why people hate her. Stir the pot and then try to play the victim. |
It depends on the context. On DCUM? No. IRL with friends/family? Sure. |