Anonymous wrote:I second the suggestion for looking at public options if you have them. At 4 there are very few options (we looked!). Maddux is one, but they're picky and it will depends on what you mean by "behavior issue" - we were told that they may request we medicate to attend or stay. There doesn't actually seem to be much tolerance for classic ADHD behaviors there. That said...I'm not sure we would have had as big an issue as we have elsewhere if we'd gone to a place like Maddux, since the much smaller class and increased structure may have mediated some of our issues. I'm not sure there's another good private option. Kingsbury has the preschool program - KEEP, but when we went to look, it's a mixed age class (through first?), quite small, with maybe one other preschooler, mixed needs, and it didn't meet our needs at the time (but we have some language/social issues beyond ADHD). My sense is options open up - slightly - at K or 1.
PP here... FWIW we started medication, at 4, less than 6 months after the conversation with Maddux, so...medication is a possibility to explore even at this age if it's already interfering with school/social/behavior/etc. (just noting, not sure if you've considered, lots of reasons not to/to wait, but in case you were just going off age, wanted to offer up).
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