Is anybody actually freaking out?
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Anonymous
| The level of calm here is stunning. Is anyone's life plan teetering on a slobbering 2.5 year-old's chance of becoming one of X students in a certain class? Or is there a sense that STUFF. WILL. WORK. OUT. ?? |
Anonymous
| You know, we freaked out last year, struck out for PK3 (well, we eventually got off AppleTree Columbia Heights waitlist), and ended up leaving our nanny share for a wonderful preschool. We were suprised how much DS loves going there, and he's learning a lot. We'll move if we keep strike out. Freaking out does no good. |
Anonymous
| (See "less crazy this year" thread.) |
Anonymous
| We struck out our first year of the lottery, but we had a back up plan so there was never a need to freak out. If your financial plan depends on winning the lottery, there are some schools that never fill -- it's just that those schools are typically not discussed on DCUM. |
Anonymous
| People will freak out when the results come out. |
Anonymous
And again when the waitlists don't move/or their position worsens due to a sibling preference bumping them further down the wait list. |
Anonymous
Cue the "it's school CHANCE not school choice" threads. |
Anonymous
| And the "I got into CMI, and am #3 on the YY waitlist. This is so unfair. What should I DOOOOOO?" |
Anonymous
| I'm freaking out but I'm playing the middle school lottery. If this past week is any predictor, I'm going to be having a lot of sleepless nights coming my way. |
Anonymous
Good luck - I think angst at the middle school level is a lot more understandable and appropriate than for PK3 or 4 (fewer options, better sense of what will/won't work for your kid). But it's been a long time since I was parenting a preschooler. |
Anonymous
| Even my IB with single digit proficiency rates is great for ECE. |
Anonymous
| I'm freaking out. We ended up at our IB for PK3 and it has been fine. PK4 there will also be fine but we are seriously concerned about K and up. I know we have 2 shots at the lottery before we have to make some hard choices but I really really really don't want to have to move to the suburbs! I think the fact that we have been through the lottery once and didn't get the results we were hoping for is putting even more pressure on the results this year. |
Anonymous
We had terrible luck in PK3 and PK4, then got our #1 choice in K. It *does* happen, just might take a few tries. I kept the faith and you should too! Though I admit the weeks efore he K results I'd started browsing Moco real estate listings and feeling despair.... |
Anonymous
NP here - Were you ever worried your #1 would disappoint? I think that's my bigger fear. What is the 1 or 2 schools we've been wanting don't work out, then we have to switch yet again. |
Anonymous
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No freaking out. We are happy with the PK program at our kid's daycare, so if we don't get in somewhere we want, we'll just try again or move next year. Frankly, I don't even think preschool matters that much for kids with educated parents, who read to them and talk to them and take them to museums, etc.
And you don't have to move to the suburbs, just to a neighborhood with an IB school you like better. |