Insecure about body
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Anonymous
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Sometimes I feel insecure about my body because of comments my BF makes. My BF's ex was a "voluptuous" woman. She had large hips, huge belly and small breasts. She was on the bigger side. I know because I have looked at her Facebook profile. She also has thick legs and arms.
I am the exact opposite. I am petite, have small bones, have curves but I'm not "large" by any means. Sometimes, I find I'm not curvy enough for my BF since he always comments about how skinny women aren't attractive. In fact, I think he gives me MORE attention and tells me I'm hot when I have been eating a lot and gain a few pounds and a larger belly. Now I'm always paranoid that he won't find me attractive until I become a fatty! |
Anonymous
| Go away troll. |
Anonymous
| Drop your bf. |
Anonymous
| troll go eat some twinkie |
Anonymous
| Scarf some twinkie |
Anonymous
| It will never go away and eventually he will dump you for or cheat on you with someone more his type. Unless you want to get fat, dump him |
Anonymous
| Have you asked him what about attracts him since he is into bigger ladies? And clarified that is hurtful to hear him talk about smaller women in a derogatory way since you are smaller? |
Anonymous
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OP: Is your bf a black man? On the whole they tend to prefer "meaty" women.
I'll bet you could do better. Asian and white guys like petite women, maybe you should try one of those guys. |
Anonymous
+1 It's fine if he likes women who are bigger, but you are not that way. As long as you are healthy, and you are happy with the way you are. You can find a man who loves you just as you are. I'm also very petite and skinny. I think I weighed all of 93lbs when my DH and I got together (ok, after 15 yrs and 2 kids, I've packed on about 15 to 20lbs). I've seen pix of my DH's ex's too, and they were a lot curvier than I was, but he never said anything negative about it. On the contrary, he kept telling me how beautiful I was (am). Dump him. Find someone who likes you the way you are. |
Anonymous
| Stop eating so much, and start exercising at least four hours a week. |