He's 53 been married twice
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Anonymous
| First time his wife cheated on him. Second marriage he cheated on his wife. Thoughts? |
Anonymous
| How long ago did the second marriage end. Less than 2 years, he's still damaged goods. 3-5 years, then he may have had enough time to work on his issues. |
Anonymous
| Depends on your options. |
Anonymous
| Yeah, don't do it. I know someone who is 52 and about to marry his 3rd wife (she is 33). He is not a bad person but sucks when it comes to relationship. He'll run away from this one eventually, too. |
Anonymous
| How old is the original poster |
Anonymous
Correction, the new wife will be his fourth. People don't change, OP. |
Anonymous
| Don't worry, OP, he has plenty of marriages left in him! |
Anonymous
| I have a friend in a similar situation and I would never say he is damaged goods nor unworthy of love. My friend is kind, thoughtful, and compassionate, and deserves happiness. He has experienced major challenges in life but he still has a huge heart. I love him dearly and could not imagine a life without him. |
Anonymous
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No chance.
There are plenty of 53 y.o. men who can stay married. Choose them. This guy is your STBX at best. |
Anonymous
| Thoughts about what? |
Anonymous
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Too old. Next wife will be the caretaker wife.
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Anonymous
| loser. run. |
Anonymous
| Stay far away. He's been involved in at least two tumultuous relationships. Why be the next? |
Anonymous
| Depends. I'd like to say it doesn't matter, but then my brother-in-law married his third wife around this age... just like the first two ones, this marriage ended with a crash. |
Anonymous
| Is he paying alimony? |